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) l5 H- W, F+ hIn 1982, when he was still working on the Macintosh, Jobs met the famed folksinger Joan
% d; d1 B; V; }Baez through her sister Mimi Fariña, who headed a charity that was trying to get donations
6 U/ b- h4 e0 N% f' y8 w/ iof computers for prisons. A few weeks later he and Baez had lunch in Cupertino. “I wasn’t
7 F. V' F; ?1 ~8 ~: eexpecting a lot, but she was really smart and funny,” he recalled. At the time, he was6 U2 v. l0 v# j! G. L4 h0 Y, m) d
nearing the end of his relationship with Barbara Jasinski. They had vacationed in Hawaii,6 ^4 N8 j0 ]# [
shared a house in the Santa Cruz mountains, and even gone to one of Baez’s concerts
5 U6 T/ _+ k! M3 f2 y. F) ytogether. As his relationship with Jasinski flamed out, Jobs began getting more serious with
' w" ~- ~( K0 `# p8 CBaez. He was twenty-seven and Baez was forty-one, but for a few years they had a
9 j0 ?& H$ |$ x$ s- x$ p* V7 T1 Iromance. “It turned into a serious relationship between two accidental friends who became' s6 T; Z, L* ]' T2 J
lovers,” Jobs recalled in a somewhat wistful tone.5 r" v/ Y# t5 i3 R4 B
Elizabeth Holmes, Jobs’s friend from Reed College, believed that one of the reasons he: ~2 E7 R* Y+ B, b5 ~, R- m
went out with Baez—other than the fact that she was beautiful and funny and talented—5 Y: r: z8 u9 v, u& Z0 |: O
was that she had once been the lover of Bob Dylan. “Steve loved that connection to
w) T+ N3 r3 p9 p2 ]/ v% L- yDylan,” she later said. Baez and Dylan had been lovers in the early 1960s, and they toured" z# \, L# Z: \* g% }. c1 r i
as friends after that, including with the Rolling Thunder Revue in 1975. (Jobs had the+ |5 |# k3 a) d! |( |! ]5 _
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When she met Jobs, Baez had a fourteen-year-old son, Gabriel, from her marriage to the# C5 o, q3 w3 f2 f
antiwar activist David Harris. At lunch she told Jobs she was trying to teach Gabe how to
9 |# L- d+ e( Ytype. “You mean on a typewriter?” Jobs asked. When she said yes, he replied, “But a* {$ q2 J0 Z( _# ]8 d2 @. o. C
typewriter is antiquated.”
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, @! i5 ?. E5 p" Q7 b, x z“If a typewriter is antiquated, what does that make me?” she asked. There was an( ?; o' K/ b H8 ?( _: I. Y5 Q
awkward pause. As Baez later told me, “As soon as I said it, I realized the answer was so
/ ?6 w$ N( r7 |7 e$ Hobvious. The question just hung in the air. I was just horrified.”
) L' A/ P5 t# w. I6 KMuch to the astonishment of the Macintosh team, Jobs burst into the office one day with8 W8 m( @" J9 R
Baez and showed her the prototype of the Macintosh. They were dumbfounded that he `' I% x8 x1 t
would reveal the computer to an outsider, given his obsession with secrecy, but they were+ ^. P& S3 F% f* J5 k" r
even more blown away to be in the presence of Joan Baez. He gave Gabe an Apple II, and
" t( Z/ U' F) Y$ `* z" T: Dhe later gave Baez a Macintosh. On visits Jobs would show off the features he liked. “He+ ?1 n; {- b: ~( ?6 X% Q |6 ~
was sweet and patient, but he was so advanced in his knowledge that he had trouble$ V5 g" q4 f. R- K' t" o
teaching me,” she recalled.
& X+ P1 P3 y! `3 oHe was a sudden multimillionaire; she was a world-famous celebrity, but sweetly down-0 A2 _9 \ T+ A- D
to-earth and not all that wealthy. She didn’t know what to make of him then, and still found4 N7 r# I5 G# R' t; U3 j& l
him puzzling when she talked about him almost thirty years later. At one dinner early in
2 h& z# ]8 b1 {4 U6 C/ @3 Ktheir relationship, Jobs started talking about Ralph Lauren and his Polo Shop, which she
/ l8 M3 [' ]7 d' \( Q" C9 T f3 ladmitted she had never visited. “There’s a beautiful red dress there that would be perfect
3 ^, C1 i3 z+ w% xfor you,” he said, and then drove her to the store in the Stanford Mall. Baez recalled, “I said* Z/ z! F: N& G
to myself, far out, terrific, I’m with one of the world’s richest men and he wants me to have5 E: P9 u5 z1 c' w2 Y( j( E
this beautiful dress.” When they got to the store, Jobs bought a handful of shirts for himself0 B) M1 B( A. |; v: z
and showed her the red dress. “You ought to buy it,” he said. She was a little surprised, and2 o2 n+ t5 H/ {: B
told him she couldn’t really afford it. He said nothing, and they left. “Wouldn’t you think if2 ~* y! E6 G: Y
someone had talked like that the whole evening, that they were going to get it for you?” she4 j' f5 s1 ^) s6 Z$ }. G' C
asked me, seeming genuinely puzzled about the incident. “The mystery of the red dress is7 @! H: u i" b2 J, X
in your hands. I felt a bit strange about it.” He would give her computers, but not a dress,1 H& I: H0 W: V# x& X
and when he brought her flowers he made sure to say they were left over from an event in7 Y, D+ J9 P- Z/ ?' a+ f2 G
the office. “He was both romantic and afraid to be romantic,” she said.
$ ~5 v" `% e; `! j! ?0 hWhen he was working on the NeXT computer, he went to Baez’s house in Woodside to
9 G& m$ J+ q4 n; J! f6 N- x/ a. |show her how well it could produce music. “He had it play a Brahms quartet, and he told4 [# a) B* j/ p" W" u& p) p6 Z
me eventually computers would sound better than humans playing it, even get the innuendo( |# Y: t3 U5 z& x
and the cadences better,” Baez recalled. She was revolted by the idea. “He was working
, M* w' E' A$ R; D) f1 Mhimself up into a fervor of delight while I was shrinking into a rage and thinking, How' m3 Y1 O2 z3 Z( R' o
could you defile music like that?”
2 c/ [7 B1 n2 m5 g# C) d& mJobs would confide in Debi Coleman and Joanna Hoffman about his relationship with9 D. X. ^5 L: |
Baez and worry about whether he could marry someone who had a teenage son and was, Q% a( d& k2 y* [' A
probably past the point of wanting to have more children. “At times he would belittle her as9 p% p) o+ h& E; J1 F7 Z/ y
being an ‘issues’ singer and not a true ‘political’ singer like Dylan,” said Hoffman. “She
. t ?4 r% ~7 @% |& u$ kwas a strong woman, and he wanted to show he was in control. Plus, he always said he: ]" y1 ^/ z. ^7 b3 P
wanted to have a family, and with her he knew that he wouldn’t.”. J }* I; g5 [$ i; i- ^" Z! d) A
And so, after about three years, they ended their romance and drifted into becoming just
7 _+ @; E4 u( C' h+ r5 T$ Zfriends. “I thought I was in love with her, but I really just liked her a lot,” he later said. “We
. ?0 ?8 G) |) p& K) ^weren’t destined to be together. I wanted kids, and she didn’t want any more.” In her 19897 H9 x- J- [. x& Z" m, V
memoir, Baez wrote about her breakup with her husband and why she never remarried: “I. E) l% R$ I. ?" d% \! K
belonged alone, which is how I have been since then, with occasional interruptions that are
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1 W$ d5 Y2 \! U0 B* o; [; y' p% omostly picnics.” She did add a nice acknowledgment at the end of the book to “Steve Jobs
/ s5 u4 I3 [5 y1 u! M* Ffor forcing me to use a word processor by putting one in my kitchen.”
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When Jobs was thirty-one, a year after his ouster from Apple, his mother Clara, who was a
; r2 x( u, Y9 _0 _& \smoker, was stricken with lung cancer. He spent time by her deathbed, talking to her in g- C" W) l M: D
ways he had rarely done in the past and asking some questions he had refrained from
s5 M) Y4 n n4 ?$ \# T- W" jraising before. “When you and Dad got married, were you a virgin?” he asked. It was hard2 ?: Q( j" \# X, y
for her to talk, but she forced a smile. That’s when she told him that she had been married
& q; L. ~, S& ^0 Hbefore, to a man who never made it back from the war. She also filled in some of the details, h4 I2 Q" n. b( y/ W
of how she and Paul Jobs had come to adopt him.
( I+ ]. O& m. {( v% a5 K8 ISoon after that, Jobs succeeded in tracking down the woman who had put him up for* F' M1 u+ T5 w! Y0 Z0 K9 ^7 P- Q6 E8 D
adoption. His quiet quest to find her had begun in the early 1980s, when he hired a
7 \0 W. V* G6 ^& ]! ~- c9 q$ _detective who had failed to come up with anything. Then Jobs noticed the name of a San4 f1 d* N2 i; I. l) p
Francisco doctor on his birth certificate. “He was in the phone book, so I gave him a call,”
4 g5 ?0 b8 J ?& {Jobs recalled. The doctor was no help. He claimed that his records had been destroyed in a
4 Y% e3 Q) X: Y; A" xfire. That was not true. In fact, right after Jobs called, the doctor wrote a letter, sealed it in# i9 K5 v1 [2 E6 n. n- X
an envelope, and wrote on it, “To be delivered to Steve Jobs on my death.” When he died a
9 u4 s- e( p% `/ C) Y; Lshort time later, his widow sent the letter to Jobs. In it, the doctor explained that his mother v2 G7 Z( W* i4 {
had been an unmarried graduate student from Wisconsin named Joanne Schieble.
5 [* _) Q# v9 Q, g; UIt took another few weeks and the work of another detective to track her down. After4 i0 v$ m2 d- z9 {+ m2 V3 t
giving him up, Joanne had married his biological father, Abdulfattah “John” Jandali, and! w" z4 b' U" |# k
they had another child, Mona. Jandali abandoned them five years later, and Joanne married# V3 j9 Q! R$ s e2 G
a colorful ice-skating instructor, George Simpson. That marriage didn’t last long either, and. g' M: D) x& Z+ t7 u
in 1970 she began a meandering journey that took her and Mona (both of them now using
$ l2 C. A3 V# o$ `the last name Simpson) to Los Angeles.
% N4 b+ c4 H3 p( b" |Jobs had been reluctant to let Paul and Clara, whom he considered his real parents, know- H5 ^: k! ^' y/ K4 {
about his search for his birth mother. With a sensitivity that was unusual for him, and which
5 ~) Q( Y- l1 A) E5 @$ R# vshowed the deep affection he felt for his parents, he worried that they might be offended.
+ q; p3 J8 }$ x- j$ NSo he never contacted Joanne Simpson until after Clara Jobs died in early 1986. “I never
6 @1 I* E3 {" w! B. ]7 nwanted them to feel like I didn’t consider them my parents, because they were totally my
6 G0 |6 C0 H$ X# Y$ g9 @parents,” he recalled. “I loved them so much that I never wanted them to know of my
" ^, x @# a; X* `( ?+ m4 g S4 hsearch, and I even had reporters keep it quiet when any of them found out.” When Clara# _' k# C/ V, F; o, B
died, he decided to tell Paul Jobs, who was perfectly comfortable and said he didn’t mind at$ _& K- K, x, b" h6 S
all if Steve made contact with his biological mother.3 w% P( ] _7 O; J [
So one day Jobs called Joanne Simpson, said who he was, and arranged to come down to
8 b; m2 ~+ r* b$ }7 WLos Angeles to meet her. He later claimed it was mainly out of curiosity. “I believe in0 \0 z: I* W0 f. x/ @8 ^- i
environment more than heredity in determining your traits, but still you have to wonder a
& \) H1 J* o) f0 \3 m9 w7 tlittle about your biological roots,” he said. He also wanted to reassure Joanne that what she* w {9 Y; [: r8 A1 A
had done was all right. “I wanted to meet my biological mother mostly to see if she was: w) P7 P- Q" d3 M2 n
okay and to thank her, because I’m glad I didn’t end up as an abortion. She was twenty-
* c& j9 ?& |. kthree and she went through a lot to have me.” 1 e: N! z) ^( `, w
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5 u' I9 I! z& `$ C. v6 f; `Joanne was overcome with emotion when Jobs arrived at her Los Angeles house. She5 q- m! w9 b- m
knew he was famous and rich, but she wasn’t exactly sure why. She immediately began to3 `0 R' C1 F# h7 b3 F) d5 g2 c; m
pour out her emotions. She had been pressured to sign the papers putting him up for) J" _" y2 R+ s8 I7 ~! p% p: z
adoption, she said, and did so only when told that he was happy in the house of his new
6 ?7 E' R2 t( v( r4 Yparents. She had always missed him and suffered about what she had done. She apologized( L1 D9 T& q5 P) l
over and over, even as Jobs kept reassuring her that he understood, and that things had
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Once she calmed down, she told Jobs that he had a full sister, Mona Simpson, who was
. s# [* t8 i7 R8 T6 B" G t1 ^then an aspiring novelist in Manhattan. She had never told Mona that she had a brother, and$ j3 l( V2 H! Y8 G {9 O
that day she broke the news, or at least part of it, by telephone. “You have a brother, and3 q' @( h& z: q' f3 P
he’s wonderful, and he’s famous, and I’m going to bring him to New York so you can meet
1 O Q D+ P, p0 g+ B7 u6 Z3 I. {him,” she said. Mona was in the throes of finishing a novel about her mother and their
: p* r. B9 C, t8 Q, O; Yperegrination from Wisconsin to Los Angeles, Anywhere but Here. Those who’ve read it
; q6 q2 h* ~. }- owill not be surprised that Joanne was somewhat quirky in the way she imparted to Mona5 ]) A9 g/ h) g' i7 I
the news about her brother. She refused to say who he was—only that he had been poor,
& z5 B% l7 [; W y5 Whad gotten rich, was good-looking and famous, had long dark hair, and lived in California.
4 [9 M d0 K2 ZMona then worked at the Paris Review, George Plimpton’s literary journal housed on the
2 g; c; Z+ I2 R9 r. iground floor of his townhouse near Manhattan’s East River. She and her coworkers began a
) t) s; @, ~" j. ` {9 O# Dguessing game on who her brother might be. John Travolta? That was one of the favorite t" L- q4 D# g) j! n
guesses. Other actors were also hot prospects. At one point someone did toss out a guess
4 m1 [8 {$ r, r# C1 b2 Q. p. V& h% Cthat “maybe it’s one of those guys who started Apple computer,” but no one could recall# \; D0 d- ?2 `9 n: {) |6 G
their names.
7 R" y2 |& L+ u* U8 F tThe meeting occurred in the lobby of the St. Regis Hotel. “He was totally
z8 z6 `: S, C6 R$ K4 |straightforward and lovely, just a normal and sweet guy,” Mona recalled. They all sat and
; ]" l: w( e" a5 k" k( N2 h- l3 @6 xtalked for a few minutes, then he took his sister for a long walk, just the two of them. Jobs
- J7 ^& o4 }5 P8 twas thrilled to find that he had a sibling who was so similar to him. They were both intense( u# u7 k+ @$ _9 W- P! b2 L
in their artistry, observant of their surroundings, and sensitive yet strong-willed. When they8 ^0 u3 y( d4 }& e) t1 R
went to dinner together, they noticed the same architectural details and talked about them' a) q% d( |+ I, d8 B4 K
excitedly afterward. “My sister’s a writer!” he exulted to colleagues at Apple when he
6 n E7 u9 H) U% Bfound out.
4 ] w N& N Z* B& I/ CWhen Plimpton threw a party for Anywhere but Here in late 1986, Jobs flew to New6 T3 {9 `- Y+ ~) G* [' O% A1 u
York to accompany Mona to it. They grew increasingly close, though their friendship had# s7 S7 |5 W8 L' y% C# h0 O
the complexities that might be expected, considering who they were and how they had
1 z! s1 ~: ?8 y/ L h/ W# C8 v' E: ?1 scome together. “Mona was not completely thrilled at first to have me in her life and have
& V* S4 q! Z! i, B& F- fher mother so emotionally affectionate toward me,” he later said. “As we got to know each6 @# O5 R; G0 q; ^) q9 H
other, we became really good friends, and she is my family. I don’t know what I’d do
2 H9 x& w8 e6 r2 _! Y) Jwithout her. I can’t imagine a better sister. My adopted sister, Patty, and I were never
" S8 U6 U4 {: b( g0 Iclose.” Mona likewise developed a deep affection for him, and at times could be very/ N/ J1 A! r: G: O4 m3 W7 q" X8 r
protective, although she would later write an edgy novel about him, A Regular Guy, that$ |6 E7 Z. E# G/ z. m3 _0 K4 J
described his quirks with discomforting accuracy.
8 a& ^% ]. ?# m8 |One of the few things they would argue about was her clothes. She dressed like a3 A6 ~- |/ D' ^3 }2 K. C. Q4 X, d3 c
struggling novelist, and he would berate her for not wearing clothes that were “fetching
% _9 L. R" q2 P+ k) R- ^/ xenough.” At one point his comments so annoyed her that she wrote him a letter: “I am a
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( [# F7 L! C3 @' G/ F6 Gyoung writer, and this is my life, and I’m not trying to be a model anyway.” He didn’t
; k6 @& f. g% Y3 qanswer. But shortly after, a box arrived from the store of Issey Miyake, the Japanese3 O, R: Q3 N& ^5 \6 M( k4 o
fashion designer whose stark and technology-influenced style made him one of Jobs’s
" \1 c: D' G, vfavorites. “He’d gone shopping for me,” she later said, “and he’d picked out great things,
+ `! L, Q- r& W4 L7 b6 q" Aexactly my size, in flattering colors.” There was one pantsuit that he had particularly liked,
/ c9 x$ E- W8 B0 ?2 J0 r2 w/ F: w9 B; o0 xand the shipment included three of them, all identical. “I still remember those first suits I
6 t9 e; V; p0 `2 qsent Mona,” he said. “They were linen pants and tops in a pale grayish green that looked$ h% E) @) U, {- F* G( O+ v. _
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The Lost Father
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In the meantime, Mona Simpson had been trying to track down their father, who had# H* g- ?2 Q* p+ ` t% i
wandered off when she was five. Through Ken Auletta and Nick Pileggi, prominent
8 I; U7 k) J* `# e m aManhattan writers, she was introduced to a retired New York cop who had formed his own: A& V; F" M" C: T9 b
detective agency. “I paid him what little money I had,” Simpson recalled, but the search
% N$ C/ [1 d1 [, Ywas unsuccessful. Then she met another private eye in California, who was able to find an* {0 c& e5 A% c5 _6 k" x
address for Abdulfattah Jandali in Sacramento through a Department of Motor Vehicles# a7 w" P% m' F- x$ X
search. Simpson told her brother and flew out from New York to see the man who was
1 l5 U! X9 R& v* ]/ W( uapparently their father.
$ W% j: k) u9 o* W8 J& a: v YJobs had no interest in meeting him. “He didn’t treat me well,” he later explained. “I
" I+ F5 R; p# ~1 adon’t hold anything against him—I’m happy to be alive. But what bothers me most is that) D/ G* f3 u% _
he didn’t treat Mona well. He abandoned her.” Jobs himself had abandoned his own
8 z Q k7 y% C: [" |/ |: eillegitimate daughter, Lisa, and now was trying to restore their relationship, but that
3 W# a+ o$ V! Q/ `complexity did not soften his feelings toward Jandali. Simpson went to Sacramento alone.* P8 \* O# Y. A; O- B
“It was very intense,” Simpson recalled. She found her father working in a small6 K) ^0 [9 g7 T; ^
restaurant. He seemed happy to see her, yet oddly passive about the entire situation. They* H6 ^6 ~; ]8 ]- O1 f! Z6 ^
talked for a few hours, and he recounted that, after he left Wisconsin, he had drifted away& n/ X3 F/ u. E1 d% j3 U1 u
from teaching and gotten into the restaurant business.( I. \- _( b8 c9 R# H6 s
Jobs had asked Simpson not to mention him, so she didn’t. But at one point her father/ ^5 O; b8 p. P( b- J6 O S
casually remarked that he and her mother had had another baby, a boy, before she had been
9 T0 U1 \7 @ V' w- gborn. “What happened to him?” she asked. He replied, “We’ll never see that baby again.
" m/ a W+ L* X% AThat baby’s gone.” Simpson recoiled but said nothing.' M. s& F, l k" a5 B
An even more astonishing revelation occurred when Jandali was describing the previous
9 R2 @8 l7 u0 t3 A% Krestaurants that he had run. There had been some nice ones, he insisted, fancier than the, q" m9 {# Z+ k
Sacramento joint they were then sitting in. He told her, somewhat emotionally, that he, n/ h: n, L4 y- W
wished she could have seen him when he was managing a Mediterranean restaurant north
% m( {: G3 b5 c, R" |$ F! Lof San Jose. “That was a wonderful place,” he said. “All of the successful technology
! r% y" h$ c# w" Gpeople used to come there. Even Steve Jobs.” Simpson was stunned. “Oh, yeah, he used to
. U# S! ^5 o6 b# Zcome in, and he was a sweet guy, and a big tipper,” her father added. Mona was able to
# T* O( O$ ]9 Q9 Krefrain from blurting out, Steve Jobs is your son!
3 T9 ^& G: v5 d* I. d V4 R8 ^+ NWhen the visit was over, she called Jobs surreptitiously from the pay phone at the; F$ J) ~ @! x L2 R
restaurant and arranged to meet him at the Espresso Roma café in Berkeley. Adding to the
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3 s" u: d8 Q* q0 Fmother, Chrisann. When they all arrived at the café, it was close to 10 p.m., and Simpson
4 ~. |1 Z7 x1 ^poured forth the tale. Jobs was understandably astonished when she mentioned the9 A) x8 n+ ~" g" ?6 U. S" s. B6 z9 D$ P
restaurant near San Jose. He could recall being there and even meeting the man who was
$ E0 s! |7 |% _4 R" S$ P) phis biological father. “It was amazing,” he later said of the revelation. “I had been to that* E/ a" [" j; e
restaurant a few times, and I remember meeting the owner. He was Syrian. Balding. We
" H( F- X3 j( w1 lshook hands.”
, k5 c* ]0 n" z9 S5 {$ vNevertheless Jobs still had no desire to see him. “I was a wealthy man by then, and I
" `; `* W: H4 O3 y' f3 Xdidn’t trust him not to try to blackmail me or go to the press about it,” he recalled. “I asked1 }/ P% q/ w+ q ? F
Mona not to tell him about me.”, e1 }7 ]( p$ I5 J" Y
She never did, but years later Jandali saw his relationship to Jobs mentioned online. (A6 f, `) V6 Z' I, s+ T8 F
blogger noticed that Simpson had listed Jandali as her father in a reference book and: p& E6 E/ j. N) T$ o3 F
figured out he must be Jobs’s father as well.) By then Jandali was married for a fourth time4 a. E1 s$ S2 S! } F; h/ A, E
and working as a food and beverage manager at the Boomtown Resort and Casino just west# t% j! s) S2 E
of Reno, Nevada. When he brought his new wife, Roscille, to visit Simpson in 2006, he1 Z {4 U9 D2 g# Q5 B
raised the topic. “What is this thing about Steve Jobs?” he asked. She confirmed the story,
# A' d6 g2 w5 @but added that she thought Jobs had no interest in meeting him. Jandali seemed to accept) k# R9 e3 i" s* \* R8 n& c
that. “My father is thoughtful and a beautiful storyteller, but he is very, very passive,”8 c B( ?! j9 x! q3 x4 O
Simpson said. “He never contacted Steve.”
5 p! \3 J' H+ y& F5 C& ~ USimpson turned her search for Jandali into a basis for her second novel, The Lost Father,/ H( l& `- @& @% r4 ~7 \4 N
published in 1992. (Jobs convinced Paul Rand, the designer who did the NeXT logo, to
. q7 z" u0 |" P; [. C+ p) Ddesign the cover, but according to Simpson, “It was God-awful and we never used it.”) She
6 F4 }; n+ I# p8 X- w) @also tracked down various members of the Jandali family, in Homs and in America, and in$ T; _2 o3 z( N
2011 was writing a novel about her Syrian roots. The Syrian ambassador in Washington4 \/ f: L$ J1 y7 p: ^/ F2 m+ u
threw a dinner for her that included a cousin and his wife who then lived in Florida and had
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Simpson assumed that Jobs would eventually meet Jandali, but as time went on he) O7 w. |, h& l
showed even less interest. In 2010, when Jobs and his son, Reed, went to a birthday dinner& H6 f; V+ q9 x4 _; r1 T2 b
for Simpson at her Los Angeles house, Reed spent some time looking at pictures of his
& p1 T: P/ K' O2 }$ rbiological grandfather, but Jobs ignored them. Nor did he seem to care about his Syrian2 R6 m( E: M) S: ^- C
heritage. When the Middle East would come up in conversation, the topic did not engage
$ Q4 S7 H, q. b4 fhim or evoke his typical strong opinions, even after Syria was swept up in the 2011 Arab J: [: H- U7 c) E) X
Spring uprisings. “I don’t think anybody really knows what we should be doing over" a+ N2 D6 G& q4 ^+ c9 P
there,” he said when I asked whether the Obama administration should be intervening more5 b5 ?6 V( X D6 V" x+ W6 |$ D
in Egypt, Libya, and Syria. “You’re fucked if you do and you’re fucked if you don’t.”
2 V) r& @7 f& ]% M) s0 u4 O) HJobs did retain a friendly relationship with his biological mother, Joanne Simpson. Over2 F0 ]' q) o* N. ^1 M
the years she and Mona would often spend Christmas at Jobs’s house. The visits could be4 m/ l; g6 y6 w) D
sweet, but also emotionally draining. Joanne would sometimes break into tears, say how6 h- {- A. o+ b% M" C3 `
much she had loved him, and apologize for giving him up. It turned out all right, Jobs
. z0 Y- B6 `. H, P, V, qwould reassure her. As he told her one Christmas, “Don’t worry. I had a great childhood. I
7 ]: W# |# l! N; [turned out okay.”
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Lisa Brennan, however, did not have a great childhood. When she was young, her father
* u- l: W/ k& p$ _( h/ o$ f) Galmost never came to see her. “I didn’t want to be a father, so I wasn’t,” Jobs later said,
& r" p2 d( s6 O" b8 S" n$ ~3 Zwith only a touch of remorse in his voice. Yet occasionally he felt the tug. One day, when" q7 ^5 J3 w8 m( p* ^' t
Lisa was three, Jobs was driving near the house he had bought for her and Chrisann, and he3 S+ [% O. D4 G3 m! ^
decided to stop. Lisa didn’t know who he was. He sat on the doorstep, not venturing inside,
; u. I1 {# L% f( cand talked to Chrisann. The scene was repeated once or twice a year. Jobs would come by
' O$ y2 {2 j0 N, Ounannounced, talk a little bit about Lisa’s school options or other issues, then drive off in
# u- ?7 P R( Nhis Mercedes.
) m9 Q* F# m- Z& r' o3 BBut by the time Lisa turned eight, in 1986, the visits were occurring more frequently.
7 I `/ n! F+ e; \Jobs was no longer immersed in the grueling push to create the Macintosh or in the( Y E' d6 n& K: n
subsequent power struggles with Sculley. He was at NeXT, which was calmer, friendlier,
7 B- F8 O3 q& E9 Z) Q6 @% T8 F6 Y2 ?and headquartered in Palo Alto, near where Chrisann and Lisa lived. In addition, by the
; I) L0 A S. d0 m9 @; v. ~time she was in third grade, it was clear that Lisa was a smart and artistic kid, who had j% e4 R& ]. I# S* d5 q; l: O
already been singled out by her teachers for her writing ability. She was spunky and high-! d; l: K) T' D2 i+ B( X
spirited and had a little of her father’s defiant attitude. She also looked a bit like him, with
9 ?* v" G' |: O+ V) G I' larched eyebrows and a faintly Middle Eastern angularity. One day, to the surprise of his+ ]% `, M: l ~
colleagues, he brought her by the office. As she turned cartwheels in the corridor, she: w! k5 |. o- Y, C
squealed, “Look at me!”
6 X+ _4 w& r' w) yAvie Tevanian, a lanky and gregarious engineer at NeXT who had become Jobs’s friend,( S/ O) B6 j0 o1 E W) f( u
remembers that every now and then, when they were going out to dinner, they would stop
3 ]; h; v' S7 w- i7 a9 V9 I; P% Eby Chrisann’s house to pick up Lisa. “He was very sweet to her,” Tevanian recalled. “He; j& }2 |: K9 q9 o
was a vegetarian, and so was Chrisann, but she wasn’t. He was fine with that. He suggested
$ s' _1 b& K. |3 Jshe order chicken, and she did.”# C7 A) |: J% J+ L0 L# p+ H5 a
Eating chicken became her little indulgence as she shuttled between two parents who
& R7 n7 f5 C+ ~# F/ S# y( Y$ ?were vegetarians with a spiritual regard for natural foods. “We bought our groceries—our
: v' m r8 b8 ?2 X6 @3 Dpuntarella, quinoa, celeriac, carob-covered nuts—in yeasty-smelling stores where the% [" c% h1 S/ O2 v$ x* {, H
women didn’t dye their hair,” she later wrote about her time with her mother. “But we8 u d0 S2 G6 F5 \! @; }
sometimes tasted foreign treats. A few times we bought a hot, seasoned chicken from a
, |, A6 y& ]" f2 \ rgourmet shop with rows and rows of chickens turning on spits, and ate it in the car from the6 v9 h. R+ k! O' n
foil-lined paper bag with our fingers.” Her father, whose dietary fixations came in fanatic" l. o/ o8 V$ L" K. G0 y* m
waves, was more fastidious about what he ate. She watched him spit out a mouthful of soup
/ ]& k9 P. ^1 D4 b# Pone day after learning that it contained butter. After loosening up a bit while at Apple, he% q+ I( E" T; n
was back to being a strict vegan. Even at a young age Lisa began to realize his diet S; A1 p7 U0 R1 D! `
obsessions reflected a life philosophy, one in which asceticism and minimalism could
) T7 W+ W( W' b i4 Rheighten subsequent sensations. “He believed that great harvests came from arid sources,6 S+ z* b6 e- }! L8 p5 N" P
pleasure from restraint,” she noted. “He knew the equations that most people didn’t know:
% p; w, g: R7 l5 n# S; yThings led to their opposites.”5 @1 Z, ]- ]* C& z" q! Q
In a similar way, the absence and coldness of her father made his occasional moments of* Q' ~' t) O2 |3 Z4 [
warmth so much more intensely gratifying. “I didn’t live with him, but he would stop by D% [. r5 ^+ I! N p- b$ _& ~
our house some days, a deity among us for a few tingling moments or hours,” she recalled.: d2 D( s3 l: L
Lisa soon became interesting enough that he would take walks with her. He would also go" l/ P( \1 v( r" F7 ~
rollerblading with her on the quiet streets of old Palo Alto, often stopping at the houses of9 U, K- y# \6 l& i, a7 N- K
Joanna Hoffman and Andy Hertzfeld. The first time he brought her around to see Hoffman,
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he just knocked on the door and announced, “This is Lisa.” Hoffman knew right away. “It9 G& l4 s0 K( W+ e) g
was obvious she was his daughter,” she told me. “Nobody has that jaw. It’s a signature
5 ]1 h! [/ ~, R* f8 pjaw.” Hoffman, who suffered from not knowing her own divorced father until she was ten,; U( ?5 x; \! E6 \
encouraged Jobs to be a better father. He followed her advice, and later thanked her for it.8 y" Y |( ?/ m, R1 A( ^$ @
Once he took Lisa on a business trip to Tokyo, and they stayed at the sleek and$ {& s5 y. s! M. N1 N
businesslike Okura Hotel. At the elegant downstairs sushi bar, Jobs ordered large trays of
5 }- v& Y5 C9 Funagi sushi, a dish he loved so much that he allowed the warm cooked eel to pass muster as* v, [: L- u" ^4 d$ ]
vegetarian. The pieces were coated with fine salt or a thin sweet sauce, and Lisa
8 d: h% o& ~4 s: Q1 y& mremembered later how they dissolved in her mouth. So, too, did the distance between them.
3 T, L1 d+ m4 ?; M( [# ~( {7 ZAs she later wrote, “It was the first time I’d felt, with him, so relaxed and content, over
0 h, W' ?# e- ?0 Z- qthose trays of meat; the excess, the permission and warmth after the cold salads, meant a
+ L, Z( M! j$ G2 x5 [' aonce inaccessible space had opened. He was less rigid with himself, even human under the
% a( p' H/ }6 egreat ceilings with the little chairs, with the meat, and me.”
# L( Z; k- A, H$ Q- ?2 tBut it was not always sweetness and light. Jobs was as mercurial with Lisa as he was0 {& ]+ m6 {( j [- |/ O
with almost everyone, cycling between embrace and abandonment. On one visit he would
4 G! M9 }; J/ h* y0 Obe playful; on the next he would be cold; often he was not there at all. “She was always3 g. o# T# q* K/ E4 C* `6 b
unsure of their relationship,” according to Hertzfeld. “I went to a birthday party of hers,
& Z$ m8 J6 P( z1 a" i# Z( Q! yand Steve was supposed to come, and he was very, very, late. She got extremely anxious
& U- y$ Z3 c7 _* s O! O! | Q, D$ tand disappointed. But when he finally did come, she totally lit up.”4 Y% e: {$ x7 s" `( [
Lisa learned to be temperamental in return. Over the years their relationship would be a
. a# |( ~' e$ J4 \roller coaster, with each of the low points elongated by their shared stubbornness. After a2 ~$ d7 i& D6 ?
falling-out, they could go for months not speaking to each other. Neither one was good at0 y# |0 }! `" P9 t% F
reaching out, apologizing, or making the effort to heal, even when he was wrestling with O, Q/ l$ E7 Z/ M2 P
repeated health problems. One day in the fall of 2010 he was wistfully going through a box
2 d" M+ ]8 s; f, @of old snapshots with me, and paused over one that showed him visiting Lisa when she was2 J5 N; t: ?! d( S' X+ w
young. “I probably didn’t go over there enough,” he said. Since he had not spoken to her all* Y* F$ ]( K2 D7 R2 }2 |! P
that year, I asked if he might want to reach out to her with a call or email. He looked at me2 \7 J8 I, @. e, T, H b' _
blankly for a moment, then went back to riffling through other old photographs.# s1 ~# m% P1 F x' C
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whenever he was away from his current girlfriend. In the summer of 1983 he went to a. ~/ e5 |# Z7 L# N9 h. i
small dinner party in Silicon Valley with Joan Baez and sat next to an undergraduate at the
1 y- ?/ P7 ]' }/ R, A; X, M; ^/ q4 g6 }University of Pennsylvania named Jennifer Egan, who was not quite sure who he was. By1 _9 m7 G3 i# q! a/ d3 ^1 L$ t( d
then he and Baez had realized that they weren’t destined to be forever young together, and# z* u2 Q* E- T) y/ V# A. E6 p
Jobs found himself fascinated by Egan, who was working on a San Francisco weekly& L2 c# n$ C' \/ y R' {. i9 w
during her summer vacation. He tracked her down, gave her a call, and took her to Café
( H0 K3 \3 O2 b9 r L6 [Jacqueline, a little bistro near Telegraph Hill that specialized in vegetarian soufflés.
, e( s2 Y6 u1 U& Y O5 y' N$ XThey dated for a year, and Jobs often flew east to visit her. At a Boston Macworld event,1 m4 ^ A8 @8 D
he told a large gathering how much in love he was and thus needed to rush out to catch a8 X9 ^2 r9 X! R( B8 Q& j
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" d* V+ m9 E. x S2 c7 Fvisiting New York, she would take the train up to stay with him at the Carlyle or at Jay
1 p6 r" A) Y/ ]% {8 [ s4 @ F( tChiat’s Upper East Side apartment, and they would eat at Café Luxembourg, visit
# D, Z- V: h/ O% g2 X3 E4 `(repeatedly) the apartment in the San Remo he was planning to remodel, and go to movies7 v3 h. d# r- f4 z9 y# J8 b
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He and Egan also spoke for hours on the phone many nights. One topic they wrestled
! h, k5 u4 S& r% S! J7 [$ G1 Bwith was his belief, which came from his Buddhist studies, that it was important to avoid8 Z& \# t6 I0 J- w8 x0 K
attachment to material objects. Our consumer desires are unhealthy, he told her, and to) X6 S, \; Y1 b! I0 J; m( r: [
attain enlightenment you need to develop a life of nonattachment and non-materialism. He, Z# b {; }, t" s; G
even sent her a tape of Kobun Chino, his Zen teacher, lecturing about the problems caused; n/ v5 P# U$ a; ]* e' ~& g& b
by craving and obtaining things. Egan pushed back. Wasn’t he defying that philosophy, she
: M" w: _7 M hasked, by making computers and other products that people coveted? “He was irritated by
& A; w! d7 r/ bthe dichotomy, and we had exuberant debates about it,” Egan recalled.
2 U" n8 c5 W, G2 l) [In the end Jobs’s pride in the objects he made overcame his sensibility that people should
2 I. D) x% L# V) |eschew being attached to such possessions. When the Macintosh came out in January 1984,& q, k, D! F6 ?! w' B8 n( q# q5 z3 Q
Egan was staying at her mother’s apartment in San Francisco during her winter break from7 |+ U/ l9 o: C# l: M7 x; j
Penn. Her mother’s dinner guests were astonished one night when Steve Jobs—suddenly, b1 Y; s; e* E% \$ j. v v$ ]) X
very famous—appeared at the door carrying a freshly boxed Macintosh and proceeded to
% l4 ~" n8 a' `) ^Egan’s bedroom to set it up.
) j1 q; {" S0 R# Y; WJobs told Egan, as he had a few other friends, about his premonition that he would not3 @! _5 X* W* e0 W4 Q0 U
live a long life. That was why he was driven and impatient, he confided. “He felt a sense of
! L% f: `9 A5 a- ~: E, t5 _+ R8 _7 purgency about all he wanted to get done,” Egan later said. Their relationship tapered off by
+ |# h+ {1 O" v" f* G! Cthe fall of 1984, when Egan made it clear that she was still far too young to think of getting
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1985, Jobs was heading to a meeting when he stopped at the office of a guy who was
( \& E0 z5 w4 k1 X& Dworking with the Apple Foundation, which helped get computers to nonprofit; M4 k( X, ?7 i2 M
organizations. Sitting in his office was a lithe, very blond woman who combined a hippie
9 a" P, v9 y6 N, J. Gaura of natural purity with the solid sensibilities of a computer consultant. Her name was- N5 @9 ?# t& E0 T. v9 [: G9 b
Tina Redse. “She was the most beautiful woman I’d ever seen,” Jobs recalled.! Z6 O2 m8 i Y4 E( f9 y
He called her the next day and asked her to dinner. She said no, that she was living with# D9 _0 K& U/ m0 E7 ^. h6 Y
a boyfriend. A few days later he took her on a walk to a nearby park and again asked her% `9 k; U% f9 e8 C, W) w6 E
out, and this time she told her boyfriend that she wanted to go. She was very honest and2 I" C2 T$ R# b9 }, W. r- _1 n; m
open. After dinner she started to cry because she knew her life was about to be disrupted.
% y) X5 O( C+ q, J( o* Y$ KAnd it was. Within a few months she had moved into the unfurnished mansion in
6 X- M% ?+ `, k0 U/ G" G( g* d* s7 N9 UWoodside. “She was the first person I was truly in love with,” Jobs later said. “We had a
6 g$ O/ V2 T: v1 pvery deep connection. I don’t know that anyone will ever understand me better than she
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Redse came from a troubled family, and Jobs shared with her his own pain about being
* T7 X$ U6 ~* Mput up for adoption. “We were both wounded from our childhood,” Redse recalled. “He6 i& ^; f0 S7 v; ] m; h: r. P
said to me that we were misfits, which is why we belonged together.” They were physically# ?2 ?$ q y3 c/ r2 v% D6 E. L) z# C
passionate and prone to public displays of affection; their make-out sessions in the NeXT) J- @6 _" E- @# r% ^3 x6 {' V" }: ]! Q
lobby are well remembered by employees. So too were their fights, which occurred at
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- F Z- X, y" V" K2 k8 qmovie theaters and in front of visitors to Woodside. Yet he constantly praised her purity and5 g$ |2 m6 I$ u1 R& K
naturalness. As the well-grounded Joanna Hoffman pointed out when discussing Jobs’s
) @6 v/ D# p$ c5 L7 W4 r" ~infatuation with the otherworldly Redse, “Steve had a tendency to look at vulnerabilities! P {( e- E5 I/ u
and neuroses and turn them into spiritual attributes.”) h/ C! G& x: i7 m2 a. {
When he was being eased out at Apple in 1985, Redse traveled with him in Europe,
/ S& _$ z3 o z! g- s; |2 [' R" Hwhere he was salving his wounds. Standing on a bridge over the Seine one evening, they
! z9 V1 P& {$ Y% t0 ebandied about the idea, more romantic than serious, of just staying in France, maybe
' u! A# c$ w, g" ` Z; ysettling down, perhaps indefinitely. Redse was eager, but Jobs didn’t want to. He was
6 p1 W* X" O. I5 e6 oburned but still ambitious. “I am a reflection of what I do,” he told her. She recalled their
7 a6 M9 U& ]8 ]5 f* A; `3 z( p9 a6 {Paris moment in a poignant email she sent to him twenty-five years later, after they had8 P$ I# _* L9 s3 J0 t) D
gone their separate ways but retained their spiritual connection:0 s- C, c9 N* \2 t
We were on a bridge in Paris in the summer of 1985. It was overcast. We leaned against
: W1 @! }0 C; T8 Q5 j. Ythe smooth stone rail and stared at the green water rolling on below. Your world had$ v$ W" b! A8 ] v/ {. u* B
cleaved and then it paused, waiting to rearrange itself around whatever you chose next. I
( k! Q& P1 w; s D5 v& dwanted to run away from what had come before. I tried to convince you to begin a new life
9 |! _! `5 Z6 b. W( P3 S+ }+ awith me in Paris, to shed our former selves and let something else course through us. I
" \6 ]. ~' \ Owanted us to crawl through that black chasm of your broken world and emerge, anonymous
' l2 n A2 J0 D5 j, hand new, in simple lives where I could cook you simple dinners and we could be together* o) H4 Z' h! j0 g7 \
every day, like children playing a sweet game with no purpose save the game itself. I like to
~1 O ^2 n# d+ s9 Rthink you considered it before you laughed and said “What could I do? I’ve made myself
! I( r$ S, F7 d) Z. Punemployable.” I like to think that in that moment’s hesitation before our bold futures
6 f% G# Q! E2 l5 Vreclaimed us, we lived that simple life together all the way into our peaceful old ages, with
& ?, y0 P a$ P4 _5 Ca brood of grandchildren around us on a farm in the south of France, quietly going about
$ L0 r- s! q0 Four days, warm and complete like loaves of fresh bread, our small world filled with the
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, G. O" K Q! | c/ z/ _# Dfurnished Woodside house. Jobs had hired a hip young couple, who had once worked at3 O( m i4 q+ a
Chez Panisse, as housekeepers and vegetarian cooks, and they made her feel like an' `3 N8 [3 ?' U7 b/ ]9 o: f
interloper. She would occasionally move out to an apartment of her own in Palo Alto,+ Y: }/ r8 q5 G4 a2 _
especially after one of her torrential arguments with Jobs. “Neglect is a form of abuse,” she
5 p; ]5 |4 k Gonce scrawled on the wall of the hallway to their bedroom. She was entranced by him, but7 q) l V7 e' t& N! s+ z; P+ j9 J
she was also baffled by how uncaring he could be. She would later recall how incredibly
$ K8 }' b. P0 |painful it was to be in love with someone so self-centered. Caring deeply about someone
1 B) L) T! P) U8 ]/ @who seemed incapable of caring was a particular kind of hell that she wouldn’t wish on
( Z9 L# k$ e0 k0 P! c0 Oanyone, she said.
; ]# {1 @2 b) M# vThey were different in so many ways. “On the spectrum of cruel to kind, they are close
. G g( r5 n4 ]to the opposite poles,” Hertzfeld later said. Redse’s kindness was manifest in ways large9 s: e J( K5 l( [. f; n
and small; she always gave money to street people, she volunteered to help those who (like$ U# x1 ~$ O W/ n& x; L0 h; W* X
her father) were afflicted with mental illness, and she took care to make Lisa and even0 d, G8 G/ S3 Q5 c7 N
Chrisann feel comfortable with her. More than anyone, she helped persuade Jobs to spend
X6 v' e# k9 p [more time with Lisa. But she lacked Jobs’s ambition and drive. The ethereal quality that
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wavelength. “Their relationship was incredibly tempestuous,” said Hertzfeld. “Because of
" ^9 Z7 C: I3 o* \ o/ e& C) Y& Wboth of their characters, they would have lots and lots of fights.”, S5 N/ P. |5 P' T0 J @
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ourselves and to each other, we are able to allow what’s innate and true to emerge.”
& y) t8 X& N* C0 w& M1 T3 g0 v8 WWhen they were together for a long stretch, things did not work out well. But when they& @9 Z/ t: M5 `
were apart, Jobs would pine for her. Finally, in the summer of 1989, he asked her to marry
" K% y- U0 N# B; ? Q9 d8 Dhim. She couldn’t do it. It would drive her crazy, she told friends. She had grown up in a. Q0 f7 ?2 ~& a3 U- v
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environment. They were opposites who attracted, she said, but the combination was too
9 ~) W; }4 b, W3 Ecombustible. “I could not have been a good wife to ‘Steve Jobs,’ the icon,” she later1 a! ]. u0 L, r# [: O' _2 @
explained. “I would have sucked at it on many levels. In our personal interactions, I* R+ D0 _& v) D
couldn’t abide his unkindness. I didn’t want to hurt him, yet I didn’t want to stand by and
& W# R1 g" m- T: |& e [, Dwatch him hurt other people either. It was painful and exhausting.”) B/ w9 X& H+ @
After they broke up, Redse helped found OpenMind, a mental health resource network in
/ @7 ]& D5 C4 ~3 ?/ E+ H+ dCalifornia. She happened to read in a psychiatric manual about Narcissistic Personality
a7 j' i9 G: d. T! BDisorder and decided that Jobs perfectly met the criteria. “It fits so well and explained so; N; N. K% z( A
much of what we had struggled with, that I realized expecting him to be nicer or less self-
& d1 G3 k3 T0 d* {* s" ~; x6 Scentered was like expecting a blind man to see,” she said. “It also explained some of the! W7 v t7 e$ J. v8 M, u
choices he’d made about his daughter Lisa at that time. I think the issue is empathy—the& ^# j: u* [; [. I9 U
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with cancer, she got in touch again to give support. She became very emotional whenever
+ s) i4 l. @$ H% ^5 e# w7 X& V0 Mshe recalled their relationship. “Though our values clashed and made it impossible for us to* p# ?7 Y& @9 m( e0 w3 w2 |/ M
have the relationship we once hoped for,” she told me, “the care and love I felt for him
: k( T4 R7 Y6 ~2 |6 U- n4 S5 R- Kdecades ago has continued.” Similarly, Jobs suddenly started to cry one afternoon as he sat
: ] M3 Z, p" z: s0 P) fin his living room reminiscing about her. “She was one of the purest people I’ve ever
1 n* c" l# w: R$ s% X uknown,” he said, tears rolling down his cheeks. “There was something spiritual about her
: N+ C+ _* M2 `# Pand spiritual about the connection we had.” He said he always regretted that they could not
+ Y# d( v" }( W3 J; \make it work, and he knew that she had such regrets as well. But it was not meant to be. On
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# y4 \- K" n2 Z. L QBy this point, based on his dating history, a matchmaker could have put together a
/ i& W8 O0 O% H5 j# o) Vcomposite sketch of the woman who would be right for Jobs. Smart, yet unpretentious.
9 q7 C m4 U/ N- i2 dTough enough to stand up to him, yet Zen-like enough to rise above turmoil. Well-educated. _3 j; g! A! w$ ~
and independent, yet ready to make accommodations for him and a family. Down-to-earth,8 X6 \1 N1 y5 } \# q# I' X* y
but with a touch of the ethereal. Savvy enough to know how to manage him, but secure
4 |# o5 P! w2 W5 i% w. a5 G& @enough to not always need to. And it wouldn’t hurt to be a beautiful, lanky blonde with an( f+ d% o; O, b+ D
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one of the “View from the Top” lectures at the Stanford Business School one Thursday
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5 [& F% k! Y& f# Lher class talked her into going to the lecture. They arrived late and all the seats were taken,
, |7 Z# |) D; L" i2 c6 Fso they sat in the aisle. When an usher told them they had to move, Powell took her friend
6 \4 ^6 f+ |% Y- a6 L# r- Ldown to the front row and commandeered two of the reserved seats there. Jobs was led to
: } _0 @& [' N% ]7 Zthe one next to her when he arrived. “I looked to my right, and there was a beautiful girl
" z# m- d: Q% {there, so we started chatting while I was waiting to be introduced,” Jobs recalled. They
5 l, U- R& Q5 M( wbantered a bit, and Laurene joked that she was sitting there because she had won a raffle,
5 W3 R4 _. d# N) R% C- P" t Qand the prize was that he got to take her to dinner. “He was so adorable,” she later said.. [4 w. a) S& _1 s5 G# a
After the speech Jobs hung around on the edge of the stage chatting with students. He0 {4 M7 L4 x- h4 o0 n( L! [! P
watched Powell leave, then come back and stand at the edge of the crowd, then leave again.8 j( F5 C% q4 V4 _
He bolted out after her, brushing past the dean, who was trying to grab him for a
) r3 N8 K7 L2 G9 C2 u qconversation. After catching up with her in the parking lot, he said, “Excuse me, wasn’t
& C+ h8 @/ u7 k. } t1 M' Jthere something about a raffle you won, that I’m supposed to take you to dinner?” She
2 e7 H% G- Q( M9 o2 Rlaughed. “How about Saturday?” he asked. She agreed and wrote down her number. Jobs2 c; i' x# a k; s/ M% F4 I. M9 P2 B% D
headed to his car to drive up to the Thomas Fogarty winery in the Santa Cruz mountains
' y- [, P) B0 d# b7 E5 d" ~above Woodside, where the NeXT education sales group was holding a dinner. But he" Q9 R0 c2 Z2 C. R+ {. d" X
suddenly stopped and turned around. “I thought, wow, I’d rather have dinner with her than
! j5 ?% u9 O' ]0 C& s/ A- |the education group, so I ran back to her car and said ‘How about dinner tonight?’” She
, ? b& R8 M b0 g/ Q4 x5 Hsaid yes. It was a beautiful fall evening, and they walked into Palo Alto to a funky
" V7 I( |% E# Pvegetarian restaurant, St. Michael’s Alley, and ended up staying there for four hours.
) \% c9 Y5 `! B* d) D2 t“We’ve been together ever since,” he said.
) Q1 [, X# v- m3 g; TAvie Tevanian was sitting at the winery restaurant waiting with the rest of the NeXT
, c& x4 k4 _5 h3 w, K. @5 G C" ueducation group. “Steve was sometimes unreliable, but when I talked to him I realized that
8 ~: `+ E/ n9 ]+ ]/ ~0 Nsomething special had come up,” he said. As soon as Powell got home, after midnight, she
0 a+ f+ |3 W+ j% h Mcalled her close friend Kathryn (Kat) Smith, who was at Berkeley, and left a message on
. ]& m" G7 b$ A1 g: B4 Nher machine. “You will not believe what just happened to me!” it said. “You will not) r V E+ [- u" V h+ [) x4 L
believe who I met!” Smith called back the next morning and heard the tale. “We had known
3 _! E. i3 q( S7 W1 q9 R; E5 K5 {about Steve, and he was a person of interest to us, because we were business students,” she/ k! @, d/ F+ @" \, p a) q
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Andy Hertzfeld and a few others later speculated that Powell had been scheming to meet7 K( |/ S( W. p+ v" Y4 r- w7 N% k
Jobs. “Laurene is nice, but she can be calculating, and I think she targeted him from the
7 x6 m( b( r) \3 |% F0 r, Fbeginning,” Hertzfeld said. “Her college roommate told me that Laurene had magazine+ a1 H, F' }3 z
covers of Steve and vowed she was going to meet him. If it’s true that Steve was% g2 r* G' d0 F' q. c
manipulated, there is a fair amount of irony there.” But Powell later insisted that this wasn’t4 A3 F& |5 Z, {$ y
the case. She went only because her friend wanted to go, and she was slightly confused as; X& s3 s' {) G2 j7 k( Z
to who they were going to see. “I knew that Steve Jobs was the speaker, but the face I
. w. E; U4 g3 p1 U3 cthought of was that of Bill Gates,” she recalled. “I had them mixed up. This was 1989. He
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my friend was, so we went.”
" H9 I5 o* i6 A# g6 m: L+ D) y“There were only two women in my life that I was truly in love with, Tina and Laurene,”
8 l1 _" v' A: F- P: [Jobs later said. “I thought I was in love with Joan Baez, but I really just liked her a lot. It
7 M4 e% |3 z1 v1 Iwas just Tina and then Laurene.” ! M9 W A- c/ `
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, h5 x T! Z/ I, _. KLaurene Powell had been born in New Jersey in 1963 and learned to be self-sufficient at an
, I* F6 Y7 m4 u) B8 o, bearly age. Her father was a Marine Corps pilot who died a hero in a crash in Santa Ana,4 G2 e. G; M9 B
California; he had been leading a crippled plane in for a landing, and when it hit his plane
1 s; A$ W; |3 @he kept flying to avoid a residential area rather than ejecting in time to save his life. Her
$ Y% W7 K% p; cmother’s second marriage turned out to be a horrible situation, but she felt she couldn’t$ F3 a! h* |1 j* a ]
leave because she had no means to support her large family. For ten years Laurene and her
* n6 k! W2 \4 Q% d3 S% ^three brothers had to suffer in a tense household, keeping a good demeanor while
2 K) }' A8 F0 V1 v% ?compartmentalizing problems. She did well. “The lesson I learned was clear, that I always1 C2 f& H, H- D! P& e1 r
wanted to be self-sufficient,” she said. “I took pride in that. My relationship with money is ~0 a7 ]4 C/ N" h( E
that it’s a tool to be self-sufficient, but it’s not something that is part of who I am.”
' R; X4 K9 z# G1 bAfter graduating from the University of Pennsylvania, she worked at Goldman Sachs as% [; B% V- ?; R, f$ k
a fixed income trading strategist, dealing with enormous sums of money that she traded for
* p9 G2 Y; r$ M1 l5 S! kthe house account. Jon Corzine, her boss, tried to get her to stay at Goldman, but instead& K2 o) t g) u! Y: ]) s" X
she decided the work was unedifying. “You could be really successful,” she said, “but
! m0 t* p& `2 K3 k0 M# Y; G4 Z8 nyou’re just contributing to capital formation.” So after three years she quit and went to2 q( N$ ^# w& t6 M" U
Florence, Italy, living there for eight months before enrolling in Stanford Business School.
' @0 s! s2 `+ e, YAfter their Thursday night dinner, she invited Jobs over to her Palo Alto apartment on) H5 E5 l5 }8 a' w7 y# e
Saturday. Kat Smith drove down from Berkeley and pretended to be her roommate so she
6 G' @ }6 u5 v4 m( M! g9 V) Fcould meet him as well. Their relationship became very passionate. “They would kiss and
4 J" P; X. _& w# Z5 A. amake out,” Smith said. “He was enraptured with her. He would call me on the phone and
9 z0 P2 o: N9 a5 ~1 [ask, ‘What do you think, does she like me?’ Here I am in this bizarre position of having this
. c6 i- n( l% D$ l7 R) z E) Qiconic person call me.”
' X5 ~. X; Z, v$ `/ V! V* ]/ f" _That New Year’s Eve of 1989 the three went to Chez Panisse, the famed Alice Waters7 H7 w+ f5 M7 B# H, R5 `
restaurant in Berkeley, along with Lisa, then eleven. Something happened at the dinner that4 _" S1 Y: V E3 \7 J; p3 B
caused Jobs and Powell to start arguing. They left separately, and Powell ended up5 E, o9 I' ^. U
spending the night at Kat Smith’s apartment. At nine the next morning there was a knock at" y6 N. Z9 s9 ^( F8 P6 R+ ^
the door, and Smith opened it to find Jobs, standing in the drizzle holding some1 Q& U8 [. o$ t7 E# }
wildflowers he had picked. “May I come in and see Laurene?” he said. She was still asleep,
; P" M+ n( A( X! b- k. n: _1 s% ]& {and he walked into the bedroom. A couple of hours went by, while Smith waited in the
# J( j1 |: `4 r! t) v: n6 iliving room, unable to go in and get her clothes. Finally, she put a coat on over her
' U! ?$ Y+ m$ ]; X: i: s9 Mnightgown and went to Peet’s Coffee to pick up some food. Jobs did not emerge until after: T5 t1 Y/ r0 {: h: M/ b
noon. “Kat, can you come here for a minute?” he asked. They all gathered in the bedroom.* Q, r0 N2 v4 r9 I7 T' h' M A
“As you know, Laurene’s father passed away, and Laurene’s mother isn’t here, and since
- B2 B% X) A0 z$ y. [you’re her best friend, I’m going to ask you the question,” he said. “I’d like to marry
2 @8 p6 e- K" FLaurene. Will you give your blessing?”
' o& x* |1 ~% iSmith clambered onto the bed and thought about it. “Is this okay with you?” she asked
, c. n! P' P1 z5 d5 VPowell. When she nodded yes, Smith announced, “Well, there’s your answer.”
5 ~6 B* K9 U- s& C) [+ _3 Y% GIt was not, however, a definitive answer. Jobs had a way of focusing on something with
. \! j. F3 H( i, Binsane intensity for a while and then, abruptly, turning away his gaze. At work, he would4 C3 K- H: ]% G) i# `- @7 ?% B
focus on what he wanted to, when he wanted to, and on other matters he would be# ?1 Z) o6 \7 m/ O
unresponsive, no matter how hard people tried to get him to engage. In his personal life, he7 U: v5 B$ }* D7 ?* }
was the same way. At times he and Powell would indulge in public displays of affection7 o$ f" z/ l- L2 m: P
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8 r2 X$ K+ o+ B" ~4 C! S zblasting the Fine Young Cannibals’ “She Drives Me Crazy” on his tape deck. Yet at other
+ D4 H" h0 I4 e; Rtimes he would ignore her. “Steve would fluctuate between intense focus, where she was0 ^: c6 s# ~, _7 F
the center of the universe, to being coldly distant and focused on work,” said Smith. “He
! c4 C" W7 h; ^ W6 S! Ehad the power to focus like a laser beam, and when it came across you, you basked in the! u/ ?1 t7 ^: o4 E8 \! @
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Once she had accepted his marriage proposal on the first day of 1990, he didn’t mention2 n" l8 H. G7 `+ r
it again for several months. Finally, Smith confronted him while they were sitting on the
) [. Z5 P& M0 z, eedge of a sandbox in Palo Alto. What was going on? Jobs replied that he needed to feel sure! r0 E$ G9 `( c4 z! u4 g
that Powell could handle the life he lived and the type of person he was. In September she
Q& q* }8 I. E2 G# `! F- U+ D$ c% u+ mbecame fed up with waiting and moved out. The following month, he gave her a diamond" ]( K* ^ j8 V, i* R
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assistant to pick out a place for him to escape. At first glance, he didn’t like the cluster of5 L, b9 \4 ^3 c( `, ^; x
sparse thatched-roof bungalows nestled on a beach on the big island of Hawaii. It was a: L6 W R; V% i' _2 n* I
family resort, with communal eating. But within hours he had begun to view it as paradise.# ], \3 i0 v9 L5 b, i. d' i& s
There was a simplicity and spare beauty that moved him, and he returned whenever he
' I8 D+ p# ^7 Pcould. He especially enjoyed being there that December with Powell. Their love had1 t% D' U2 \/ Z1 L0 ^
matured. The night before Christmas he again declared, even more formally, that he wanted3 x" {( J" e& U) E w7 V* h, k
to marry her. Soon another factor would drive that decision. While in Hawaii, Powell got
" c4 T1 l/ Z* W$ V1 Qpregnant. “We know exactly where it happened,” Jobs later said with a laugh.6 ^, E2 R H1 V
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