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In 1982, when he was still working on the Macintosh, Jobs met the famed folksinger Joan1 k) ~& o/ h% u) H Y
Baez through her sister Mimi Fariña, who headed a charity that was trying to get donations: d0 u- r$ @% E2 i( t
of computers for prisons. A few weeks later he and Baez had lunch in Cupertino. “I wasn’t
# D; C' r( P' x8 k4 u& Lexpecting a lot, but she was really smart and funny,” he recalled. At the time, he was
* I( i9 t9 d/ |7 A$ _' t: lnearing the end of his relationship with Barbara Jasinski. They had vacationed in Hawaii,3 [, S3 u) F. A x) F+ o. d
shared a house in the Santa Cruz mountains, and even gone to one of Baez’s concerts" B! |) a- _7 W& [
together. As his relationship with Jasinski flamed out, Jobs began getting more serious with2 g( }9 ~# v( l
Baez. He was twenty-seven and Baez was forty-one, but for a few years they had a
1 l- ]5 k- W9 b; i1 z9 q! q: r. uromance. “It turned into a serious relationship between two accidental friends who became. F3 C+ D7 b: R6 U9 c9 e
lovers,” Jobs recalled in a somewhat wistful tone.
" l# s+ } X+ Y4 e$ j: NElizabeth Holmes, Jobs’s friend from Reed College, believed that one of the reasons he
# i5 w% ~3 c$ P# A/ ~6 ?6 i9 Bwent out with Baez—other than the fact that she was beautiful and funny and talented—. Z! P6 p" f+ t) n) Z
was that she had once been the lover of Bob Dylan. “Steve loved that connection to
2 q; ]7 |$ q) p% B0 c7 c! U. c2 d+ DDylan,” she later said. Baez and Dylan had been lovers in the early 1960s, and they toured. b, P: }7 a$ P4 [; F
as friends after that, including with the Rolling Thunder Revue in 1975. (Jobs had the* E: A/ T! c3 W1 @. s2 }6 C1 E3 T
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When she met Jobs, Baez had a fourteen-year-old son, Gabriel, from her marriage to the, X& c, p i6 F/ v1 B$ u
antiwar activist David Harris. At lunch she told Jobs she was trying to teach Gabe how to8 ]8 k" J1 l& t; n- k3 p% E8 p
type. “You mean on a typewriter?” Jobs asked. When she said yes, he replied, “But a
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“If a typewriter is antiquated, what does that make me?” she asked. There was an u" N" D/ ?0 K/ R! a
awkward pause. As Baez later told me, “As soon as I said it, I realized the answer was so
0 f/ B& `# M* u# aobvious. The question just hung in the air. I was just horrified.”
+ I' b* V, j$ k' dMuch to the astonishment of the Macintosh team, Jobs burst into the office one day with
& v6 j, {6 d8 a) k3 S: Y/ y1 `( ZBaez and showed her the prototype of the Macintosh. They were dumbfounded that he3 V E+ B0 z+ ~: H' d9 v
would reveal the computer to an outsider, given his obsession with secrecy, but they were
! ]& H/ h3 `+ r8 C4 Oeven more blown away to be in the presence of Joan Baez. He gave Gabe an Apple II, and- s$ e ~& r; w
he later gave Baez a Macintosh. On visits Jobs would show off the features he liked. “He
& q; C5 q1 N! q2 s; m Rwas sweet and patient, but he was so advanced in his knowledge that he had trouble
i. w) g% |2 n4 i$ Eteaching me,” she recalled.! A- ~6 x( \7 w. ~
He was a sudden multimillionaire; she was a world-famous celebrity, but sweetly down-, @4 [* x+ E" z) m% J+ Z6 |, k% @0 E
to-earth and not all that wealthy. She didn’t know what to make of him then, and still found
% c# e* K# o$ A% t( ehim puzzling when she talked about him almost thirty years later. At one dinner early in* [( ^3 m+ q8 W* c( D' S
their relationship, Jobs started talking about Ralph Lauren and his Polo Shop, which she9 r9 @. U' o- {
admitted she had never visited. “There’s a beautiful red dress there that would be perfect
8 }; T6 y% i" Y% vfor you,” he said, and then drove her to the store in the Stanford Mall. Baez recalled, “I said$ J4 W' v0 S" f* O. R3 q5 r
to myself, far out, terrific, I’m with one of the world’s richest men and he wants me to have
: j; z+ R% I" wthis beautiful dress.” When they got to the store, Jobs bought a handful of shirts for himself
$ ]* M: O$ t) z" }and showed her the red dress. “You ought to buy it,” he said. She was a little surprised, and
6 x2 h: M2 L. Q, `# k; }told him she couldn’t really afford it. He said nothing, and they left. “Wouldn’t you think if
( S5 s* }+ A* ? X. Ksomeone had talked like that the whole evening, that they were going to get it for you?” she
1 U- S$ Q& p: k( Z: `" S6 k# N1 gasked me, seeming genuinely puzzled about the incident. “The mystery of the red dress is
8 d$ A+ w- d9 { win your hands. I felt a bit strange about it.” He would give her computers, but not a dress,
$ ~5 ]$ m: H' Y& g5 ^' Zand when he brought her flowers he made sure to say they were left over from an event in
# [+ [& B8 |0 l% c) i% h3 Uthe office. “He was both romantic and afraid to be romantic,” she said.
* O$ z7 h W v& z: Q9 P1 c: MWhen he was working on the NeXT computer, he went to Baez’s house in Woodside to( f. s! M$ u# L+ F3 W
show her how well it could produce music. “He had it play a Brahms quartet, and he told
: e( R) {7 f, \" {& S8 p2 Q1 V! Vme eventually computers would sound better than humans playing it, even get the innuendo
* C1 U: A! f6 t4 B/ [and the cadences better,” Baez recalled. She was revolted by the idea. “He was working4 V; K& W0 f) ]) n! Z+ }
himself up into a fervor of delight while I was shrinking into a rage and thinking, How
1 [5 u, b0 j' r5 e5 |could you defile music like that?”# G" {: \; j( u. z, C
Jobs would confide in Debi Coleman and Joanna Hoffman about his relationship with' [. M+ M( N: m7 E ^, F4 V! p* U0 Q
Baez and worry about whether he could marry someone who had a teenage son and was
2 I, `. d( N( \probably past the point of wanting to have more children. “At times he would belittle her as
7 V. u2 T. d& Lbeing an ‘issues’ singer and not a true ‘political’ singer like Dylan,” said Hoffman. “She$ m6 v6 L, b0 D$ k& ^2 d5 {
was a strong woman, and he wanted to show he was in control. Plus, he always said he: a6 |4 y0 y9 `& } Z
wanted to have a family, and with her he knew that he wouldn’t.”9 U, v0 n& w4 F
And so, after about three years, they ended their romance and drifted into becoming just
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weren’t destined to be together. I wanted kids, and she didn’t want any more.” In her 1989
, P: e( [1 W2 y# x) Tmemoir, Baez wrote about her breakup with her husband and why she never remarried: “I9 i' R- ~+ W( R, K9 I
belonged alone, which is how I have been since then, with occasional interruptions that are
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for forcing me to use a word processor by putting one in my kitchen.”
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When Jobs was thirty-one, a year after his ouster from Apple, his mother Clara, who was a
( c' j' s0 S A4 R3 b% @smoker, was stricken with lung cancer. He spent time by her deathbed, talking to her in ~3 l0 z3 a) ^/ {
ways he had rarely done in the past and asking some questions he had refrained from
( H1 g; a4 x" A) q" ?. K3 h. Eraising before. “When you and Dad got married, were you a virgin?” he asked. It was hard
7 S7 I3 d" I p) qfor her to talk, but she forced a smile. That’s when she told him that she had been married
: }: b$ f+ Y) u: _' [before, to a man who never made it back from the war. She also filled in some of the details
: x0 ]5 T" ^% S8 z. d, Hof how she and Paul Jobs had come to adopt him.
g: C1 O- i0 v. a' pSoon after that, Jobs succeeded in tracking down the woman who had put him up for
- z3 k4 m( T; h' D& M) w2 Vadoption. His quiet quest to find her had begun in the early 1980s, when he hired a/ P7 D1 ]2 i. o) [/ _/ Z
detective who had failed to come up with anything. Then Jobs noticed the name of a San7 G: e1 H& G( K0 a r+ C
Francisco doctor on his birth certificate. “He was in the phone book, so I gave him a call,”
' e) W0 R. @* Q. y0 }6 o& TJobs recalled. The doctor was no help. He claimed that his records had been destroyed in a
4 E( Y1 L! n* G \" I8 V& Rfire. That was not true. In fact, right after Jobs called, the doctor wrote a letter, sealed it in2 Y6 g; g" E* R6 H( e- b' @
an envelope, and wrote on it, “To be delivered to Steve Jobs on my death.” When he died a
6 i! d5 `2 U" U( @ Oshort time later, his widow sent the letter to Jobs. In it, the doctor explained that his mother
- }$ Q' R8 Y% v2 Z- w& [7 Yhad been an unmarried graduate student from Wisconsin named Joanne Schieble.
. h6 q/ H* u( J- V) q3 _It took another few weeks and the work of another detective to track her down. After* B/ V) u# H. b" I3 {5 O8 V
giving him up, Joanne had married his biological father, Abdulfattah “John” Jandali, and0 O) i' h2 t/ g, m8 H a$ u% S1 b
they had another child, Mona. Jandali abandoned them five years later, and Joanne married
0 K" ^2 V- g* V" R8 e' Ua colorful ice-skating instructor, George Simpson. That marriage didn’t last long either, and
/ m5 L; C" C/ Ein 1970 she began a meandering journey that took her and Mona (both of them now using
1 z* d4 |2 ?0 _' W" O1 K6 f. cthe last name Simpson) to Los Angeles.( R% I( B2 X1 q* m
Jobs had been reluctant to let Paul and Clara, whom he considered his real parents, know
8 O* V! W0 o. B# w0 @3 H7 b6 |2 Tabout his search for his birth mother. With a sensitivity that was unusual for him, and which I3 B- ?2 y% K3 Q" b
showed the deep affection he felt for his parents, he worried that they might be offended.% S6 _) p7 |7 h( ^5 Q! K( S
So he never contacted Joanne Simpson until after Clara Jobs died in early 1986. “I never
* n' s0 q/ `/ {3 j) N& ]wanted them to feel like I didn’t consider them my parents, because they were totally my$ H7 g5 Q, R7 J- n* ?% ` v/ m
parents,” he recalled. “I loved them so much that I never wanted them to know of my
# d' \: H5 ~3 k& t2 z4 nsearch, and I even had reporters keep it quiet when any of them found out.” When Clara
0 w* g! i9 Q) Q) [died, he decided to tell Paul Jobs, who was perfectly comfortable and said he didn’t mind at
8 k, ^8 w- B; B) o( f- Z) K5 e [ {all if Steve made contact with his biological mother., y) C1 [9 Q9 q" \5 N8 C5 Z" `
So one day Jobs called Joanne Simpson, said who he was, and arranged to come down to
, C) {# u% A! D# j& ]$ f7 {Los Angeles to meet her. He later claimed it was mainly out of curiosity. “I believe in1 G; w# P) R- m
environment more than heredity in determining your traits, but still you have to wonder a
) u2 Q# J0 b0 q% v3 z, e* X0 Clittle about your biological roots,” he said. He also wanted to reassure Joanne that what she
& q: ?7 c9 l4 `% s0 Xhad done was all right. “I wanted to meet my biological mother mostly to see if she was4 `6 o9 l1 p, g! X+ v \5 R
okay and to thank her, because I’m glad I didn’t end up as an abortion. She was twenty-+ ^: t- T0 `, i+ T0 v3 b! N
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Joanne was overcome with emotion when Jobs arrived at her Los Angeles house. She7 Y* G' L; \) Q
knew he was famous and rich, but she wasn’t exactly sure why. She immediately began to
! {; `. a# A6 j, n* @# Lpour out her emotions. She had been pressured to sign the papers putting him up for: g* D7 t7 ^/ ?2 z1 V
adoption, she said, and did so only when told that he was happy in the house of his new
# b! X* I4 x3 R7 a. tparents. She had always missed him and suffered about what she had done. She apologized
( f: ~% U% ?" f/ w! P5 f0 m( f( kover and over, even as Jobs kept reassuring her that he understood, and that things had
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9 c! O; c( F8 S% G* y2 Y, BOnce she calmed down, she told Jobs that he had a full sister, Mona Simpson, who was% `) O; L, w7 u# o3 v
then an aspiring novelist in Manhattan. She had never told Mona that she had a brother, and
; B m, M& m8 c/ `2 z( fthat day she broke the news, or at least part of it, by telephone. “You have a brother, and
0 S9 `! y8 Q; R9 Fhe’s wonderful, and he’s famous, and I’m going to bring him to New York so you can meet
$ a5 q9 C; Y* Q$ O' dhim,” she said. Mona was in the throes of finishing a novel about her mother and their
a- \" x! \/ s8 U$ rperegrination from Wisconsin to Los Angeles, Anywhere but Here. Those who’ve read it
+ n. y X4 {2 b6 M% y3 U) U/ Kwill not be surprised that Joanne was somewhat quirky in the way she imparted to Mona
6 h! M# ?$ w J9 Kthe news about her brother. She refused to say who he was—only that he had been poor,9 T7 |6 j: F2 \
had gotten rich, was good-looking and famous, had long dark hair, and lived in California.
% f. M2 ]* b& Z2 H. X I' GMona then worked at the Paris Review, George Plimpton’s literary journal housed on the
& i3 X# S2 k: S8 ^; Oground floor of his townhouse near Manhattan’s East River. She and her coworkers began a b% e# n+ u* A0 N0 l- L4 Q
guessing game on who her brother might be. John Travolta? That was one of the favorite4 j% I: \. l$ c6 d/ j
guesses. Other actors were also hot prospects. At one point someone did toss out a guess
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straightforward and lovely, just a normal and sweet guy,” Mona recalled. They all sat and
0 @4 _( e1 j; ktalked for a few minutes, then he took his sister for a long walk, just the two of them. Jobs
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excitedly afterward. “My sister’s a writer!” he exulted to colleagues at Apple when he3 o- d3 ]" b/ o! b& R
found out.
& z, ^- K, e0 |: S3 W* \& S' WWhen Plimpton threw a party for Anywhere but Here in late 1986, Jobs flew to New
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come together. “Mona was not completely thrilled at first to have me in her life and have
0 K+ {7 K z( Aher mother so emotionally affectionate toward me,” he later said. “As we got to know each
! h* ?( S- }% e& \& r2 r3 [2 xother, we became really good friends, and she is my family. I don’t know what I’d do& k2 d$ ]$ ^+ w5 B0 n
without her. I can’t imagine a better sister. My adopted sister, Patty, and I were never
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protective, although she would later write an edgy novel about him, A Regular Guy, that! |4 W+ H2 W& u/ S+ B2 u
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One of the few things they would argue about was her clothes. She dressed like a
, k1 e, \2 v0 V+ I0 ~: [struggling novelist, and he would berate her for not wearing clothes that were “fetching
9 a$ e% s- f* N4 ^% H5 Zenough.” At one point his comments so annoyed her that she wrote him a letter: “I am a ( F6 `5 o2 }! d0 y. n; p- B9 T0 P; ^
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5 L( g. Z- G J; ?2 W: M% z9 R& Lyoung writer, and this is my life, and I’m not trying to be a model anyway.” He didn’t
U# {* W [5 O; p% W( t7 `$ h; M' manswer. But shortly after, a box arrived from the store of Issey Miyake, the Japanese
" r6 a2 R. V, g( W$ H$ p2 i0 Cfashion designer whose stark and technology-influenced style made him one of Jobs’s: T4 l5 s; F6 ^; ], A- ?
favorites. “He’d gone shopping for me,” she later said, “and he’d picked out great things,
0 U& T2 s3 ~! w6 u( G- @exactly my size, in flattering colors.” There was one pantsuit that he had particularly liked,: t3 { o7 j+ A- d2 K: I2 h8 T3 X
and the shipment included three of them, all identical. “I still remember those first suits I
% b3 o1 {2 P9 }1 bsent Mona,” he said. “They were linen pants and tops in a pale grayish green that looked
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3 s% W3 ?5 Z9 f& c( s4 wIn the meantime, Mona Simpson had been trying to track down their father, who had
. ?6 h+ H! S7 J0 h6 r) lwandered off when she was five. Through Ken Auletta and Nick Pileggi, prominent
/ j4 s; _$ K1 y4 S1 o% F5 d, CManhattan writers, she was introduced to a retired New York cop who had formed his own$ {3 D+ r! I! X$ a! f0 U
detective agency. “I paid him what little money I had,” Simpson recalled, but the search
- X4 B9 \ G$ A" G/ \+ e; |was unsuccessful. Then she met another private eye in California, who was able to find an
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search. Simpson told her brother and flew out from New York to see the man who was
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Jobs had no interest in meeting him. “He didn’t treat me well,” he later explained. “I2 Y: d p( F7 r- v
don’t hold anything against him—I’m happy to be alive. But what bothers me most is that
$ p# D, h! ~' Ghe didn’t treat Mona well. He abandoned her.” Jobs himself had abandoned his own+ j9 V2 D5 s: c5 r3 ?$ h
illegitimate daughter, Lisa, and now was trying to restore their relationship, but that0 A, e: m1 `/ `# s
complexity did not soften his feelings toward Jandali. Simpson went to Sacramento alone.) A2 O4 X$ x( {! @% o
“It was very intense,” Simpson recalled. She found her father working in a small- ]# M6 a5 W; J; }1 Z0 Z
restaurant. He seemed happy to see her, yet oddly passive about the entire situation. They. y$ L" h3 ?+ T% X Z+ O% _0 E( g
talked for a few hours, and he recounted that, after he left Wisconsin, he had drifted away
$ Z* D* }; x [from teaching and gotten into the restaurant business.
; E+ v4 I2 b& m2 z2 @, e5 hJobs had asked Simpson not to mention him, so she didn’t. But at one point her father8 t: s, @4 C0 r! c$ X
casually remarked that he and her mother had had another baby, a boy, before she had been
# M+ ~; }9 C* _# p8 i! B5 Jborn. “What happened to him?” she asked. He replied, “We’ll never see that baby again.
$ l" ^: b( p/ V. A' n. }* ]That baby’s gone.” Simpson recoiled but said nothing.- b6 k5 d, ^3 x. _5 Z
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restaurants that he had run. There had been some nice ones, he insisted, fancier than the
( E# @2 U# K* T% ySacramento joint they were then sitting in. He told her, somewhat emotionally, that he
G# ] d4 ]) i: w: f8 J0 Mwished she could have seen him when he was managing a Mediterranean restaurant north' i( _+ _- K6 l0 c) r
of San Jose. “That was a wonderful place,” he said. “All of the successful technology
0 p8 |* u2 J( G4 bpeople used to come there. Even Steve Jobs.” Simpson was stunned. “Oh, yeah, he used to
" ` w, m, D, [" Y8 ^7 vcome in, and he was a sweet guy, and a big tipper,” her father added. Mona was able to3 r& y+ n; T+ C
refrain from blurting out, Steve Jobs is your son!
) F# B+ ]2 b* d2 ^" PWhen the visit was over, she called Jobs surreptitiously from the pay phone at the
$ M6 i6 n& B) N/ ?" _! rrestaurant and arranged to meet him at the Espresso Roma café in Berkeley. Adding to the
: k+ }4 T! V7 Q% l6 B# X3 l5 @personal and family drama, he brought along Lisa, now in grade school, who lived with her
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5 j% p1 @+ A3 _7 O8 u* amother, Chrisann. When they all arrived at the café, it was close to 10 p.m., and Simpson0 z5 U; G( g" E" |! r- P7 Z4 w
poured forth the tale. Jobs was understandably astonished when she mentioned the
1 X7 X0 A" B- C2 @' z+ prestaurant near San Jose. He could recall being there and even meeting the man who was+ I( Q- Z/ R6 B" q4 }
his biological father. “It was amazing,” he later said of the revelation. “I had been to that+ ` M, {. L2 H, j3 Y: x
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Nevertheless Jobs still had no desire to see him. “I was a wealthy man by then, and I" @, B8 b% I% s) z8 y
didn’t trust him not to try to blackmail me or go to the press about it,” he recalled. “I asked
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She never did, but years later Jandali saw his relationship to Jobs mentioned online. (A: H' H4 s- a" A* D
blogger noticed that Simpson had listed Jandali as her father in a reference book and
2 P) l9 o( G/ rfigured out he must be Jobs’s father as well.) By then Jandali was married for a fourth time r6 \7 B) t/ u$ s" m) L" X
and working as a food and beverage manager at the Boomtown Resort and Casino just west
0 z- U; n8 O" Q2 v* \9 Pof Reno, Nevada. When he brought his new wife, Roscille, to visit Simpson in 2006, he1 I2 h) T3 x. Z% j
raised the topic. “What is this thing about Steve Jobs?” he asked. She confirmed the story,
( U( R4 P3 o2 I/ `6 u4 Y+ wbut added that she thought Jobs had no interest in meeting him. Jandali seemed to accept s: Z/ D' K' R5 V* B6 X# a3 u- b( a
that. “My father is thoughtful and a beautiful storyteller, but he is very, very passive,”5 ?0 y) e+ [7 m" A$ S. m
Simpson said. “He never contacted Steve.”
9 s0 g1 J3 ^# S7 ^& bSimpson turned her search for Jandali into a basis for her second novel, The Lost Father,
. ^- z+ g. P. Bpublished in 1992. (Jobs convinced Paul Rand, the designer who did the NeXT logo, to
0 e; V5 `; O8 x4 q8 Jdesign the cover, but according to Simpson, “It was God-awful and we never used it.”) She, W3 m) x+ k- W d: W
also tracked down various members of the Jandali family, in Homs and in America, and in7 J/ ?* E' y* J5 y
2011 was writing a novel about her Syrian roots. The Syrian ambassador in Washington
" m3 X5 V# a' z' Z( Rthrew a dinner for her that included a cousin and his wife who then lived in Florida and had# R, g& \2 h4 ^- |* }; x
flown up for the occasion.
; Y% l- H) k8 U1 Z! q4 U' wSimpson assumed that Jobs would eventually meet Jandali, but as time went on he; g9 A# M$ B$ ]$ O: Z6 H* A9 B
showed even less interest. In 2010, when Jobs and his son, Reed, went to a birthday dinner
; O8 k3 U1 a; Q. Xfor Simpson at her Los Angeles house, Reed spent some time looking at pictures of his6 J- x! u* |! o9 @* ?
biological grandfather, but Jobs ignored them. Nor did he seem to care about his Syrian5 K; @* M1 ~/ {' e: g ?
heritage. When the Middle East would come up in conversation, the topic did not engage' o7 F. d* U' H2 i
him or evoke his typical strong opinions, even after Syria was swept up in the 2011 Arab
/ n/ e9 y% f- _Spring uprisings. “I don’t think anybody really knows what we should be doing over
# G; p9 N! N6 H) I, ~there,” he said when I asked whether the Obama administration should be intervening more
) M. x* W& R5 L! \$ l- B- [8 Din Egypt, Libya, and Syria. “You’re fucked if you do and you’re fucked if you don’t.”
$ J% z3 d; d1 OJobs did retain a friendly relationship with his biological mother, Joanne Simpson. Over- e. y/ T I2 o% b6 J
the years she and Mona would often spend Christmas at Jobs’s house. The visits could be
& E: g5 h' R# D n S' Psweet, but also emotionally draining. Joanne would sometimes break into tears, say how
9 r7 C+ }; t" c. i9 D: c3 Nmuch she had loved him, and apologize for giving him up. It turned out all right, Jobs
4 `6 F% m! H6 S( vwould reassure her. As he told her one Christmas, “Don’t worry. I had a great childhood. I
z" n& s/ |$ z8 G2 c4 }: Wturned out okay.”# `! K' J. m: H2 d+ y7 @9 F' e
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almost never came to see her. “I didn’t want to be a father, so I wasn’t,” Jobs later said,
; Q: B4 {/ ?0 t7 Iwith only a touch of remorse in his voice. Yet occasionally he felt the tug. One day, when4 s- l4 W1 l- @5 e- O
Lisa was three, Jobs was driving near the house he had bought for her and Chrisann, and he
5 F; Y( `. M+ o. Pdecided to stop. Lisa didn’t know who he was. He sat on the doorstep, not venturing inside,
, s( L w6 t% D& X" Tand talked to Chrisann. The scene was repeated once or twice a year. Jobs would come by; @8 s% _( j% o! Q7 t! W8 N9 M2 p$ N
unannounced, talk a little bit about Lisa’s school options or other issues, then drive off in
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But by the time Lisa turned eight, in 1986, the visits were occurring more frequently.
( c2 ~+ c" q1 `7 }8 ]Jobs was no longer immersed in the grueling push to create the Macintosh or in the
+ s/ k Q4 P% H4 P+ \: N1 B7 esubsequent power struggles with Sculley. He was at NeXT, which was calmer, friendlier,
% M7 W! p2 ^1 s$ J4 f( j, Gand headquartered in Palo Alto, near where Chrisann and Lisa lived. In addition, by the
; p1 v) b; \5 V) w7 x* s. Ztime she was in third grade, it was clear that Lisa was a smart and artistic kid, who had
3 p; M2 X5 X0 j4 r) q1 Ralready been singled out by her teachers for her writing ability. She was spunky and high-1 r0 ~" N5 |9 a9 W4 V3 p+ g
spirited and had a little of her father’s defiant attitude. She also looked a bit like him, with
9 B5 P- d' k4 \* G- Warched eyebrows and a faintly Middle Eastern angularity. One day, to the surprise of his7 D* n9 [% e& X: Q' D ^- R
colleagues, he brought her by the office. As she turned cartwheels in the corridor, she
; i; c0 U. Z$ E! ]$ L' ~* ?squealed, “Look at me!”# w3 B5 N3 H1 m* \3 A, k
Avie Tevanian, a lanky and gregarious engineer at NeXT who had become Jobs’s friend,
1 X0 e$ ^3 {! U3 g$ C( fremembers that every now and then, when they were going out to dinner, they would stop: a; X8 Q0 V) [, l* ~, G" l% Q4 ~
by Chrisann’s house to pick up Lisa. “He was very sweet to her,” Tevanian recalled. “He8 m2 `+ f! N5 T8 P! o' B
was a vegetarian, and so was Chrisann, but she wasn’t. He was fine with that. He suggested
: X7 Q0 ]( X3 O& c: Lshe order chicken, and she did.”% ?/ Y3 S# m- {7 H- z0 u5 _, ^- ~1 R
Eating chicken became her little indulgence as she shuttled between two parents who6 g7 N: G: G# s9 ]( b
were vegetarians with a spiritual regard for natural foods. “We bought our groceries—our
, j7 U* N0 r. |( N) bpuntarella, quinoa, celeriac, carob-covered nuts—in yeasty-smelling stores where the
- `3 P% E7 `& K1 X: U$ B! Gwomen didn’t dye their hair,” she later wrote about her time with her mother. “But we% N8 U h4 [, y+ S. q
sometimes tasted foreign treats. A few times we bought a hot, seasoned chicken from a N* F5 C% a0 \4 d, ^3 A8 k R2 |
gourmet shop with rows and rows of chickens turning on spits, and ate it in the car from the
" {6 x& W+ I6 g6 }! I/ ofoil-lined paper bag with our fingers.” Her father, whose dietary fixations came in fanatic. x% z+ Y6 @8 c+ n! ^2 k+ X" d
waves, was more fastidious about what he ate. She watched him spit out a mouthful of soup
- t. ^1 m) P% l. M6 o ?+ I& wone day after learning that it contained butter. After loosening up a bit while at Apple, he b% w8 ~/ I8 d9 g
was back to being a strict vegan. Even at a young age Lisa began to realize his diet3 S% `0 l, }$ u+ q2 {3 u
obsessions reflected a life philosophy, one in which asceticism and minimalism could
~+ S8 e' f; v; B3 w3 ]1 fheighten subsequent sensations. “He believed that great harvests came from arid sources,
# L$ Y6 e) R/ b- U- F2 h/ Opleasure from restraint,” she noted. “He knew the equations that most people didn’t know:
! a) V3 v K& h/ Z3 qThings led to their opposites.”9 D* E6 W! U0 E+ |0 N
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warmth so much more intensely gratifying. “I didn’t live with him, but he would stop by. l* D8 s- g. P5 \
our house some days, a deity among us for a few tingling moments or hours,” she recalled.
t0 C4 Y8 b4 o, Q3 I- oLisa soon became interesting enough that he would take walks with her. He would also go* L" ]1 u0 W$ k& C( O) h
rollerblading with her on the quiet streets of old Palo Alto, often stopping at the houses of
I% z" w, L9 v6 T. vJoanna Hoffman and Andy Hertzfeld. The first time he brought her around to see Hoffman, , i( E" C4 ^- T0 p$ q# b5 U$ |
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he just knocked on the door and announced, “This is Lisa.” Hoffman knew right away. “It0 j6 u5 F- X% A9 m% p
was obvious she was his daughter,” she told me. “Nobody has that jaw. It’s a signature
/ K1 y+ o0 s6 Ejaw.” Hoffman, who suffered from not knowing her own divorced father until she was ten,7 U6 s" z. N U' A
encouraged Jobs to be a better father. He followed her advice, and later thanked her for it.& A1 p. W2 n% w+ Y
Once he took Lisa on a business trip to Tokyo, and they stayed at the sleek and a" H1 y8 j& Z( B/ o+ c2 R
businesslike Okura Hotel. At the elegant downstairs sushi bar, Jobs ordered large trays of
% `8 m E: ?6 Runagi sushi, a dish he loved so much that he allowed the warm cooked eel to pass muster as
7 y# E' }* F& W0 r: F- A9 x- w2 P1 Kvegetarian. The pieces were coated with fine salt or a thin sweet sauce, and Lisa
7 C9 \6 r# S, l* l- s, m jremembered later how they dissolved in her mouth. So, too, did the distance between them.
% w: ?/ X# g1 n5 @As she later wrote, “It was the first time I’d felt, with him, so relaxed and content, over: t$ o& S% x& `6 F0 O
those trays of meat; the excess, the permission and warmth after the cold salads, meant a
( m5 }/ b" y P6 t2 Sonce inaccessible space had opened. He was less rigid with himself, even human under the; F! [- |- G, V
great ceilings with the little chairs, with the meat, and me.”
. R3 U* U3 e5 P B4 ~4 r4 p" _But it was not always sweetness and light. Jobs was as mercurial with Lisa as he was
+ J% g. e* @. K! q8 E( q4 | Twith almost everyone, cycling between embrace and abandonment. On one visit he would! ~' p4 e1 m$ q5 Q/ w# w
be playful; on the next he would be cold; often he was not there at all. “She was always
& r6 n% ?5 _2 I; Z) funsure of their relationship,” according to Hertzfeld. “I went to a birthday party of hers,% a; @. G4 b- ^! H7 z
and Steve was supposed to come, and he was very, very, late. She got extremely anxious
6 }* c- c3 \3 u* @% m- [$ [# o! land disappointed. But when he finally did come, she totally lit up.”
& n& w% y* c% u+ t. O* D! ~3 `Lisa learned to be temperamental in return. Over the years their relationship would be a1 h' i! M8 j, e6 z- {
roller coaster, with each of the low points elongated by their shared stubbornness. After a
" u2 @# l+ u1 |falling-out, they could go for months not speaking to each other. Neither one was good at0 ~& O0 o# \" x
reaching out, apologizing, or making the effort to heal, even when he was wrestling with/ d- t% Q4 `2 t# ~( B7 d5 k9 O
repeated health problems. One day in the fall of 2010 he was wistfully going through a box
: d0 U9 T5 K4 U# H- s' x0 dof old snapshots with me, and paused over one that showed him visiting Lisa when she was
# K( K" ~ d p8 w& Yyoung. “I probably didn’t go over there enough,” he said. Since he had not spoken to her all- l$ D, d5 ~6 I, {" g
that year, I asked if he might want to reach out to her with a call or email. He looked at me
2 I7 y3 t5 R t1 X2 Xblankly for a moment, then went back to riffling through other old photographs.
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( \/ @, B5 m1 n) ddramatically, share with friends every up and down of a relationship, and pine in public: R6 Y+ b2 J9 Q( A0 B: }
whenever he was away from his current girlfriend. In the summer of 1983 he went to a+ U: p4 p: g* d/ K4 j9 h+ p
small dinner party in Silicon Valley with Joan Baez and sat next to an undergraduate at the
8 {/ j% U0 J- l: S4 Q' D2 S1 nUniversity of Pennsylvania named Jennifer Egan, who was not quite sure who he was. By
, w$ w( |7 c; ]# Y6 W$ |then he and Baez had realized that they weren’t destined to be forever young together, and6 ~3 e8 U2 k1 v
Jobs found himself fascinated by Egan, who was working on a San Francisco weekly9 ~8 Z2 Z! ?- ^! t. p
during her summer vacation. He tracked her down, gave her a call, and took her to Café
: y3 {6 ]9 p& L$ m0 [1 OJacqueline, a little bistro near Telegraph Hill that specialized in vegetarian soufflés.* M* ?: @6 @+ O2 Z
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he told a large gathering how much in love he was and thus needed to rush out to catch a
+ P5 C+ |2 g& ~1 k0 t# D; K! Q; N4 u- H+ dplane for Philadelphia to see his girlfriend. The audience was enchanted. When he was ! r& F& O7 R; R
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visiting New York, she would take the train up to stay with him at the Carlyle or at Jay }- z* k9 O: v% B2 r. g) t
Chiat’s Upper East Side apartment, and they would eat at Café Luxembourg, visit
( X9 b' k \) R: ~(repeatedly) the apartment in the San Remo he was planning to remodel, and go to movies
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He and Egan also spoke for hours on the phone many nights. One topic they wrestled
; u- b& e, ?4 U2 qwith was his belief, which came from his Buddhist studies, that it was important to avoid
# Y: j5 Y, F. ^' m+ \ hattachment to material objects. Our consumer desires are unhealthy, he told her, and to4 w Q# f* k) I7 I: X l/ M
attain enlightenment you need to develop a life of nonattachment and non-materialism. He) `, R4 z2 }/ M( Z& f5 B/ f: S5 I; x
even sent her a tape of Kobun Chino, his Zen teacher, lecturing about the problems caused. m* r w: P+ i w- k5 n% u1 N: [
by craving and obtaining things. Egan pushed back. Wasn’t he defying that philosophy, she4 |" x' }, {0 q8 l1 ^% y* s( A0 G. q
asked, by making computers and other products that people coveted? “He was irritated by: O( z* F4 e; _
the dichotomy, and we had exuberant debates about it,” Egan recalled.
0 ^( q3 R2 w& G2 V% |$ zIn the end Jobs’s pride in the objects he made overcame his sensibility that people should* |; S+ d: ]# F7 t2 {
eschew being attached to such possessions. When the Macintosh came out in January 1984,) J d2 U7 _- `8 A+ {
Egan was staying at her mother’s apartment in San Francisco during her winter break from
' U5 N, j" T$ i6 dPenn. Her mother’s dinner guests were astonished one night when Steve Jobs—suddenly
) J: ~8 d: q _! ] Gvery famous—appeared at the door carrying a freshly boxed Macintosh and proceeded to
: c* b& s8 |. r6 F" v: F4 kEgan’s bedroom to set it up.8 {( c8 h1 q2 |0 I1 [( U
Jobs told Egan, as he had a few other friends, about his premonition that he would not) [7 W3 g) g" O* {& g4 o: l) }8 _! F
live a long life. That was why he was driven and impatient, he confided. “He felt a sense of3 F: I S; B, t) X* j! o( G
urgency about all he wanted to get done,” Egan later said. Their relationship tapered off by
& o" C. {( m- R5 U% n4 c Mthe fall of 1984, when Egan made it clear that she was still far too young to think of getting6 L7 V/ s( N7 e0 |! S' C& x; r& e
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1985, Jobs was heading to a meeting when he stopped at the office of a guy who was# L4 F4 Z) y5 G7 l0 e( O7 X: f
working with the Apple Foundation, which helped get computers to nonprofit6 { |' }& j; ^% w
organizations. Sitting in his office was a lithe, very blond woman who combined a hippie( i6 U5 _4 @ ^. R0 `) t* B
aura of natural purity with the solid sensibilities of a computer consultant. Her name was
* W, m {" p% C/ W) S9 aTina Redse. “She was the most beautiful woman I’d ever seen,” Jobs recalled.
1 S$ A0 u7 [" QHe called her the next day and asked her to dinner. She said no, that she was living with
8 O3 R1 p, I+ I% fa boyfriend. A few days later he took her on a walk to a nearby park and again asked her7 s& h1 d/ S0 I6 Q* M s9 F/ e
out, and this time she told her boyfriend that she wanted to go. She was very honest and
+ r7 a+ c, ?2 h+ N topen. After dinner she started to cry because she knew her life was about to be disrupted.8 Y) W5 c* Z4 ^& |+ ?' n' e" q& Y" E
And it was. Within a few months she had moved into the unfurnished mansion in$ O$ X& m' ^7 `1 ]" f8 x1 X
Woodside. “She was the first person I was truly in love with,” Jobs later said. “We had a
: k9 S" v& J; g. [very deep connection. I don’t know that anyone will ever understand me better than she
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Redse came from a troubled family, and Jobs shared with her his own pain about being
, ]7 h& i$ H) U& V* Zput up for adoption. “We were both wounded from our childhood,” Redse recalled. “He
# @' d3 ?6 A: d! F: Ksaid to me that we were misfits, which is why we belonged together.” They were physically" [% f) X) q5 N8 c9 ^2 y
passionate and prone to public displays of affection; their make-out sessions in the NeXT
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# ?* }- o# I8 X/ v1 ]naturalness. As the well-grounded Joanna Hoffman pointed out when discussing Jobs’s, s7 h& A" v0 y
infatuation with the otherworldly Redse, “Steve had a tendency to look at vulnerabilities! A- R# ~. |, b2 m0 k N
and neuroses and turn them into spiritual attributes.”
' E6 o9 ?/ l5 |5 B# i5 K6 @When he was being eased out at Apple in 1985, Redse traveled with him in Europe,9 j) `/ _6 K' d- n* L9 P
where he was salving his wounds. Standing on a bridge over the Seine one evening, they8 H" ^) \( d# {8 u. u1 d9 ]
bandied about the idea, more romantic than serious, of just staying in France, maybe
- {7 {9 @. Q% xsettling down, perhaps indefinitely. Redse was eager, but Jobs didn’t want to. He was/ r! r2 e. _' J3 N3 l4 c
burned but still ambitious. “I am a reflection of what I do,” he told her. She recalled their0 B7 Z5 M% S6 H, A
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We were on a bridge in Paris in the summer of 1985. It was overcast. We leaned against7 J5 S6 O" i0 T' ^/ T
the smooth stone rail and stared at the green water rolling on below. Your world had
+ n$ _9 V6 Q! c% Tcleaved and then it paused, waiting to rearrange itself around whatever you chose next. I
* k, z) y5 x7 t6 ^3 d' }wanted to run away from what had come before. I tried to convince you to begin a new life
- i- I% E& n- ?/ `with me in Paris, to shed our former selves and let something else course through us. I
5 w+ N3 G. t; ~) @' ~9 iwanted us to crawl through that black chasm of your broken world and emerge, anonymous
/ k& ~ V4 F( w0 n p2 ~and new, in simple lives where I could cook you simple dinners and we could be together, ~0 [! `4 ?9 J8 {
every day, like children playing a sweet game with no purpose save the game itself. I like to
* T% J- [! A9 _9 Z9 i: Gthink you considered it before you laughed and said “What could I do? I’ve made myself: N8 d5 T7 Z, S, b h
unemployable.” I like to think that in that moment’s hesitation before our bold futures2 q; p. N: @2 B- L. S1 G
reclaimed us, we lived that simple life together all the way into our peaceful old ages, with2 P0 B! j% q: m B+ r
a brood of grandchildren around us on a farm in the south of France, quietly going about
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aroma of patience and familiarity.
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furnished Woodside house. Jobs had hired a hip young couple, who had once worked at- v0 t* |& n; _% A N7 l
Chez Panisse, as housekeepers and vegetarian cooks, and they made her feel like an
' w* N4 J6 Z5 I( M6 Q; g7 e" iinterloper. She would occasionally move out to an apartment of her own in Palo Alto,
2 H, m, M! |* Z" l2 f* despecially after one of her torrential arguments with Jobs. “Neglect is a form of abuse,” she
7 x/ j' w! ^) F4 fonce scrawled on the wall of the hallway to their bedroom. She was entranced by him, but
7 M" f3 p0 }/ |7 u+ a" Bshe was also baffled by how uncaring he could be. She would later recall how incredibly
0 l, `1 z1 H7 D* n4 kpainful it was to be in love with someone so self-centered. Caring deeply about someone! A4 G; X, c8 f5 `: ]* c' b
who seemed incapable of caring was a particular kind of hell that she wouldn’t wish on
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They were different in so many ways. “On the spectrum of cruel to kind, they are close
$ h: H8 S% g( F: ~1 gto the opposite poles,” Hertzfeld later said. Redse’s kindness was manifest in ways large
7 C; w* x3 h9 S; G4 s H1 w* Dand small; she always gave money to street people, she volunteered to help those who (like
/ d! S7 k( K+ {& ^% J/ h0 }* qher father) were afflicted with mental illness, and she took care to make Lisa and even
- U0 G6 V6 L3 n3 d& Z9 h# _Chrisann feel comfortable with her. More than anyone, she helped persuade Jobs to spend
: k- w% }' F$ ?* c. @) Dmore time with Lisa. But she lacked Jobs’s ambition and drive. The ethereal quality that : j/ _, q# y; ]0 ]
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# H% L. p' ^. F5 H0 i7 c* z' }, Jwavelength. “Their relationship was incredibly tempestuous,” said Hertzfeld. “Because of, h8 K2 ?) z R
both of their characters, they would have lots and lots of fights.”% E9 ?+ H1 ^8 V4 t
They also had a basic philosophical difference about whether aesthetic tastes were
* s6 a# V7 O" ]: Yfundamentally individual, as Redse believed, or universal and could be taught, as Jobs4 x6 d1 b$ L0 G. G. y0 |
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7 k6 [+ M2 Y% C5 K8 U3 B% ` Fbelieved it was our job to teach people aesthetics, to teach people what they should like,”, u2 H1 C7 o* W. U% o" B$ E
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6 W( Z1 i7 W9 ]/ ]2 ^2 a2 [* n! BWhen they were together for a long stretch, things did not work out well. But when they
& I& G) c; y" ?: [8 Swere apart, Jobs would pine for her. Finally, in the summer of 1989, he asked her to marry
/ F$ |+ z2 n- N- g4 s% W+ l% Jhim. She couldn’t do it. It would drive her crazy, she told friends. She had grown up in a- N# h4 Q4 s) }& P2 h3 g: X1 C: n
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environment. They were opposites who attracted, she said, but the combination was too
9 I/ O0 z5 i( |+ M7 r7 Lcombustible. “I could not have been a good wife to ‘Steve Jobs,’ the icon,” she later; \5 E: r2 m% {3 K4 l
explained. “I would have sucked at it on many levels. In our personal interactions, I
5 p4 z1 ]. Q2 j$ V' `couldn’t abide his unkindness. I didn’t want to hurt him, yet I didn’t want to stand by and9 h2 L* O) S: K& P( \. F) w
watch him hurt other people either. It was painful and exhausting.”
% [) T+ c2 T. T$ uAfter they broke up, Redse helped found OpenMind, a mental health resource network in
7 U. t/ c- `" [* k. ]' C7 `, XCalifornia. She happened to read in a psychiatric manual about Narcissistic Personality
4 |- k* @- `- ]& [9 TDisorder and decided that Jobs perfectly met the criteria. “It fits so well and explained so
1 [; h3 ?2 u# S/ [much of what we had struggled with, that I realized expecting him to be nicer or less self-
2 ]* p+ m4 G9 mcentered was like expecting a blind man to see,” she said. “It also explained some of the
7 d% B: a1 m" Z) Rchoices he’d made about his daughter Lisa at that time. I think the issue is empathy—the
7 I- O! O/ }! N& H6 K9 acapacity for empathy is lacking.”
7 p1 f: |+ B; E& S0 c% M) ARedse later married, had two children, and then divorced. Every now and then Jobs
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with cancer, she got in touch again to give support. She became very emotional whenever
* x& e/ l6 u# H+ sshe recalled their relationship. “Though our values clashed and made it impossible for us to
5 Y s3 h. T1 Hhave the relationship we once hoped for,” she told me, “the care and love I felt for him
: Q m7 `" J3 ?8 Mdecades ago has continued.” Similarly, Jobs suddenly started to cry one afternoon as he sat
" U5 K& T1 Q8 e4 n4 |$ s: W( Cin his living room reminiscing about her. “She was one of the purest people I’ve ever
' _, }" ?0 Z2 Z/ P: H/ ]known,” he said, tears rolling down his cheeks. “There was something spiritual about her0 d. Z9 t$ t$ \1 X- P6 X0 \, \7 ]
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& r* Y# k7 x, Mmake it work, and he knew that she had such regrets as well. But it was not meant to be. On
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" y3 j0 \- N5 O2 F, TWith Laurene Powell, 1991
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7 J9 d1 T+ l6 [1 b4 MLaurene Powell' O2 h: U" V! X7 J% L& ^
, i# K! s7 m' |4 V5 W# zBy this point, based on his dating history, a matchmaker could have put together a
/ X; v! f6 i# @( O) wcomposite sketch of the woman who would be right for Jobs. Smart, yet unpretentious.
2 f$ v- ^. T. [2 n/ `$ s9 {0 NTough enough to stand up to him, yet Zen-like enough to rise above turmoil. Well-educated2 T7 k E! I( ?+ c" i" ~ G* p
and independent, yet ready to make accommodations for him and a family. Down-to-earth,: U7 K2 I" d4 D9 _. v
but with a touch of the ethereal. Savvy enough to know how to manage him, but secure( {5 M$ g' W5 I8 X& h
enough to not always need to. And it wouldn’t hurt to be a beautiful, lanky blonde with an; }7 H1 b# r1 T) C, R
easygoing sense of humor who liked organic vegetarian food. In October 1989, after his2 B+ l8 T. f s+ U, F
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so they sat in the aisle. When an usher told them they had to move, Powell took her friend
3 }5 C# O: I: i; A* Jdown to the front row and commandeered two of the reserved seats there. Jobs was led to# r0 W$ l1 B, Q' `% o. L
the one next to her when he arrived. “I looked to my right, and there was a beautiful girl
9 u6 y d& A" D6 i0 d! [6 Othere, so we started chatting while I was waiting to be introduced,” Jobs recalled. They1 y5 M+ k) H! L# E4 i
bantered a bit, and Laurene joked that she was sitting there because she had won a raffle,
0 t* C$ d* E5 Z+ [, l9 Cand the prize was that he got to take her to dinner. “He was so adorable,” she later said.
3 x$ w! _1 r- E; ^5 Q- X! `* K4 u" dAfter the speech Jobs hung around on the edge of the stage chatting with students. He) r! o5 M% Y) ~4 r/ x! y. B
watched Powell leave, then come back and stand at the edge of the crowd, then leave again.- g. z6 I' n+ n6 ?7 l& j$ x; L- h
He bolted out after her, brushing past the dean, who was trying to grab him for a
& A3 ^* A. _+ S# h. [conversation. After catching up with her in the parking lot, he said, “Excuse me, wasn’t1 Q8 J- d! G/ L7 g) i, v) U6 T/ I
there something about a raffle you won, that I’m supposed to take you to dinner?” She3 g7 o! x7 ?0 V$ ?- J5 z9 _3 G
laughed. “How about Saturday?” he asked. She agreed and wrote down her number. Jobs
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above Woodside, where the NeXT education sales group was holding a dinner. But he! M9 L0 [' y2 q* Q9 u( a( @2 t# |
suddenly stopped and turned around. “I thought, wow, I’d rather have dinner with her than' ~6 g2 i7 o8 T
the education group, so I ran back to her car and said ‘How about dinner tonight?’” She
, w1 |1 t; N6 z4 n4 fsaid yes. It was a beautiful fall evening, and they walked into Palo Alto to a funky5 v( R. E7 X: a" s
vegetarian restaurant, St. Michael’s Alley, and ended up staying there for four hours.# y( H7 G' C0 U: B% y8 K6 f
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education group. “Steve was sometimes unreliable, but when I talked to him I realized that* l- N) h: d8 @9 [) T9 W" A
something special had come up,” he said. As soon as Powell got home, after midnight, she
' r: C$ ^' o( r' {0 D5 K! U: Dcalled her close friend Kathryn (Kat) Smith, who was at Berkeley, and left a message on
# u% P/ F" D0 O, X: Ther machine. “You will not believe what just happened to me!” it said. “You will not8 ]$ q) Y7 n! z/ u
believe who I met!” Smith called back the next morning and heard the tale. “We had known
5 @, R" |. J5 N/ N' h/ @. Dabout Steve, and he was a person of interest to us, because we were business students,” she
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& X- T* L5 p4 ?2 t! A2 b) iAndy Hertzfeld and a few others later speculated that Powell had been scheming to meet
; ` s0 x3 _& h: }9 gJobs. “Laurene is nice, but she can be calculating, and I think she targeted him from the
$ ^* Z' O8 [' g! d9 L9 nbeginning,” Hertzfeld said. “Her college roommate told me that Laurene had magazine
& j, h+ x. M) |: F! Zcovers of Steve and vowed she was going to meet him. If it’s true that Steve was
' [ b# C' K1 U6 R, v6 q$ ?9 bmanipulated, there is a fair amount of irony there.” But Powell later insisted that this wasn’t% X1 q" Q3 q* Q5 ^3 a) m
the case. She went only because her friend wanted to go, and she was slightly confused as
9 C6 c5 W6 M; z$ p6 p1 A* `to who they were going to see. “I knew that Steve Jobs was the speaker, but the face I
, q; @6 X. ?/ Rthought of was that of Bill Gates,” she recalled. “I had them mixed up. This was 1989. He2 y+ ?7 R+ M1 d- i1 @6 ]) T8 y" k
was working at NeXT, and he was not that big of a deal to me. I wasn’t that enthused, but- G8 J$ }! u2 X' F, R- E. ]
my friend was, so we went.”
' Z a" Z: \$ D“There were only two women in my life that I was truly in love with, Tina and Laurene,”7 a; A% l# E6 B# [+ U
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5 e+ n) |, @* d( ~0 R0 kwas just Tina and then Laurene.”
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early age. Her father was a Marine Corps pilot who died a hero in a crash in Santa Ana,
* Q4 T0 M, s& p& m x- C; @California; he had been leading a crippled plane in for a landing, and when it hit his plane) w0 b A, F" B/ T
he kept flying to avoid a residential area rather than ejecting in time to save his life. Her& ~; t. E9 Z5 ~# q
mother’s second marriage turned out to be a horrible situation, but she felt she couldn’t& I8 i: e C+ U7 _8 v' P3 W
leave because she had no means to support her large family. For ten years Laurene and her; l% s* e) A, N: |* O
three brothers had to suffer in a tense household, keeping a good demeanor while3 u4 A# n# ~5 i. ]
compartmentalizing problems. She did well. “The lesson I learned was clear, that I always$ L8 S5 x; B0 U- e, K# b, I
wanted to be self-sufficient,” she said. “I took pride in that. My relationship with money is9 i ]* R, h3 c
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After graduating from the University of Pennsylvania, she worked at Goldman Sachs as
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the house account. Jon Corzine, her boss, tried to get her to stay at Goldman, but instead' F+ I! _8 S; N& Q
she decided the work was unedifying. “You could be really successful,” she said, “but
; }% Q& h2 Q. o1 `, c5 Zyou’re just contributing to capital formation.” So after three years she quit and went to
% T7 e8 r5 t5 }+ W- XFlorence, Italy, living there for eight months before enrolling in Stanford Business School.6 [, |& R- W9 ?6 o
After their Thursday night dinner, she invited Jobs over to her Palo Alto apartment on
4 F) t0 U. w$ p* S( h! lSaturday. Kat Smith drove down from Berkeley and pretended to be her roommate so she* A0 |* s! y7 F; ]
could meet him as well. Their relationship became very passionate. “They would kiss and( Q& A1 m/ o" c& D' y4 y0 W
make out,” Smith said. “He was enraptured with her. He would call me on the phone and5 q/ b4 @8 o8 w* v- O. S
ask, ‘What do you think, does she like me?’ Here I am in this bizarre position of having this
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That New Year’s Eve of 1989 the three went to Chez Panisse, the famed Alice Waters* O2 {7 q# M5 d$ S
restaurant in Berkeley, along with Lisa, then eleven. Something happened at the dinner that9 e3 b9 O: W( l! k% g
caused Jobs and Powell to start arguing. They left separately, and Powell ended up
0 ?/ w! M# F, F& h, Dspending the night at Kat Smith’s apartment. At nine the next morning there was a knock at0 N" [ @8 k' g" `
the door, and Smith opened it to find Jobs, standing in the drizzle holding some
0 k' |& n4 p9 `; w; X6 b" owildflowers he had picked. “May I come in and see Laurene?” he said. She was still asleep,0 N; }) S9 t" J% ~( R+ Y8 X- W( Q
and he walked into the bedroom. A couple of hours went by, while Smith waited in the
, r; K5 ^& Z6 r) T- Cliving room, unable to go in and get her clothes. Finally, she put a coat on over her
. }# E" y% |; t' _: \5 }nightgown and went to Peet’s Coffee to pick up some food. Jobs did not emerge until after
4 g$ ]% ]6 y4 Y3 ?4 Znoon. “Kat, can you come here for a minute?” he asked. They all gathered in the bedroom.
% _: y3 r" L3 q& u0 B“As you know, Laurene’s father passed away, and Laurene’s mother isn’t here, and since
# }. D5 }7 @% j* l2 V" [- h) b9 Dyou’re her best friend, I’m going to ask you the question,” he said. “I’d like to marry
) i( J$ B/ X) r1 D; n/ q+ pLaurene. Will you give your blessing?”2 B0 D0 |5 K* z; a, X3 {) B0 f
Smith clambered onto the bed and thought about it. “Is this okay with you?” she asked/ Z2 Z2 B8 q! p5 g8 J5 ]5 s/ I
Powell. When she nodded yes, Smith announced, “Well, there’s your answer.”$ y& ]' Z* i7 U# E' M
It was not, however, a definitive answer. Jobs had a way of focusing on something with" }9 ^% b" o5 }- B, d9 o
insane intensity for a while and then, abruptly, turning away his gaze. At work, he would! C% T+ E0 q* D7 S0 B3 p/ i4 _
focus on what he wanted to, when he wanted to, and on other matters he would be' O3 E' Z7 O2 e. T0 U* W2 s# f7 {
unresponsive, no matter how hard people tried to get him to engage. In his personal life, he2 O0 g Y7 B* X5 L. ^
was the same way. At times he and Powell would indulge in public displays of affection0 z9 U4 F% [# K& J7 ^$ q
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! ?0 ?( s2 P0 B) nblasting the Fine Young Cannibals’ “She Drives Me Crazy” on his tape deck. Yet at other
) g* r i$ {1 I. b' h @" jtimes he would ignore her. “Steve would fluctuate between intense focus, where she was
8 f4 Q: W' x& u6 p5 O, x9 t9 m, P8 Wthe center of the universe, to being coldly distant and focused on work,” said Smith. “He
, P8 l! X- l1 ~8 Z, Q8 ]0 g6 Thad the power to focus like a laser beam, and when it came across you, you basked in the
n6 p, H- u/ T2 o) }light of his attention. When it moved to another point of focus, it was very, very dark for
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Once she had accepted his marriage proposal on the first day of 1990, he didn’t mention
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edge of a sandbox in Palo Alto. What was going on? Jobs replied that he needed to feel sure: `: f8 q+ N* q* q
that Powell could handle the life he lived and the type of person he was. In September she$ \. W# \) T4 Z
became fed up with waiting and moved out. The following month, he gave her a diamond5 b0 \4 `1 ]/ k# x1 I9 G( Q$ C
engagement ring, and she moved back in.1 H1 ]% p1 j: B9 Q
In December Jobs took Powell to his favorite vacation spot, Kona Village in Hawaii. He
4 k! i0 V+ @0 ehad started going there nine years earlier when, stressed out at Apple, he had asked his
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4 A* R9 }( o5 D% ucould. He especially enjoyed being there that December with Powell. Their love had
, @' ?3 ~. r; K9 E$ J6 k1 {matured. The night before Christmas he again declared, even more formally, that he wanted( H5 A u; j. E8 O, u5 V' x
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